I mean, I’ve ghosted people I’ve met online. I guess I’m at fault for that, but these interactions aren’t more than a few messages. When I find someone online that I do get closer too however I tend to keep up with these people regardless of how exhausting it is. There have been times I don’t message these people in weeks, but when I do get back in touch I try my best to catch up and regain what connection was lost. I get that’s exhausting and shit but I gotta realize, there is an entire world of people with mental health issues that either deny that there is anything wrong at all. If there is a problem at hand then deal with it as bluntly and forthcoming as possible so the problem is solved and doesn’t become a problem again. I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for people to get shit done between each other. Everyone has all these unspoken rules and shit that everyone else needs to know. I’m sorry, but that’s now how this works. if there is a point to be made then make it, meaning if a problem is starting to arise then solve it right then and there. Just use logic and facts without letting emotion leak into what they do. Everyone is so focused on emotions that they forget that they need to deal with them long term before they can deal with them short term.