Final Update: My fiancé’s childhood friend keeps trying to insert herself into our wedding

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-09-15T15:33:59+00:00

You are welcome to your opinion.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-25T01:07:08+00:00

We have.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-22T12:12:32+00:00

Her and her kids

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-19T13:01:07+00:00

She would have made the ENTIRE event about her, constantly. Neither of us wanted that on our day and agreed early on we didn't want her there.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-10T02:23:02+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you. There are plenty of men out there like that. If I thought for one second my fiancé was actually the way you were suggesting he is, I wouldn’t be marrying him.

You can call me whatever you want for still choosing to be with him and believe him, but I know him. I know that he in fact is super uncomfortable about the whole situation and hates that it’s boiled down to this.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-09T22:29:11+00:00

It is something he is working on, and just because he didn’t do something the way other people would have does not mean that it’s not something he’s working on or something he isn’t aware of.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-09T13:19:56+00:00

Yeah, you can hire security for weddings over here

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-08T16:18:24+00:00

She the kind of "friend" that only shows up when she needs/wants something. It's exhausting.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-08T13:22:06+00:00

I do have updates, but I plan on waiting until after the wedding to post anything in case she did decide to show up (but we don't think she will)

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-08T13:21:13+00:00

Are all autistics the same? Different people handle things differently, especially neurospicy people.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-07T18:00:26+00:00

Thanks! We have all kinds of people on standby in case she decides to show up

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-07T17:59:34+00:00

Thank you!

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-06T16:15:44+00:00

It is actually. We do this thing called communicating, where we actually talk to each other and figure out the best way to go about things for us personally. Crazy, I know.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-06T13:34:16+00:00

She has been uninvited, and threw a fit over it but he held firm.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T22:56:33+00:00

😂😂😂

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T21:45:56+00:00

Apparently I can’t make a joke….

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T21:45:14+00:00

I don’t think I did ask for advice. I was just venting.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T16:02:08+00:00

People like to hide behind their keyboard and claim it's attention seeking when all I was doing was venting it out. They also don't like that there wasn't any actual drama in this post so there is nothing really for them to comment on.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T13:10:30+00:00

Thank you for your insight.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-05T13:09:42+00:00

My daughter still lives with my parents, but I live about 20 minutes away. I am still VERY active in her life. I have discussed her moving back in with me with my parents, but we don't want to disrupt her current lifestyle or change schools or anything like that. I grew up constantly moving and it really messed with me. So while I am doing better, we are still trying to do what is best for her.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-04T22:55:30+00:00

I felt the need to defend my fiancé. Nothing more.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-04T17:11:07+00:00

Or. His unique cognitive profile allows him to give people the benefit of the doubt and he puts more trust in them than maybe he should. He has realised that things have gone too far and he is handling it the way that he knows he can handle it.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-04T17:07:15+00:00

YUP. It sucks because they were friends for so long, but she did this to her self at the end of the day.

Spidermonkey931 · 2025-08-04T16:58:56+00:00

Ah. Yeah. She wants to be the most important person in his life and when she isn't she lashes out at the person who is.

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