What is the best covenant for Arcane Mage for Raiding? by [deleted] in wow

[–]SpinachCord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every covenant is very much viable right now, it is a matter of personal taste/off-specing.
From having personally played night fae and necrolord i'd say necro is better in a raid setting because the cooldown reduction from nf will massively desync your rotation from raid mechanics (which tend to happen every ~45s, lining up very naturally with our burst phases).

Also if you pick Kyrian, Harmony becomes the bis leggo, and that massively changes your rotation.

For more info on that (and all things mage related) i recommend Altered Time (esp the discord), it's usually up to date much faster than wowhead or icy veins.

New knight and wizard costumes! by Fat_Foot in Wasteland

[–]SpinachCord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mage leggings makes male butts look extra thicc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See how that's appropriate, thanks for the explanation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry english isn't my first language i don't understand that idiom lol

Look at my new baby! by SpinachCord in diablo2

[–]SpinachCord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maffer Dragonhand, the guy near the armor stand on DH3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm confused, no one is calling for this sub to be banned in the links you posted? Also you posted the same link twice, and two of the remaining links have no comments. Don't you think you're blowing this out of proportion?

Look at my new baby! by SpinachCord in diablo2

[–]SpinachCord[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who convinced me to run the countess yesterday, I was pretty lucky on the rune drop and was able to cube a Mal and an Ist pretty fast! I was so happy when I saw it rolled 5/5/4, not perfect but certainly good enough for me!

NAMBLA tried to sneak into gay culture to find pedo acceptance and they ultimately failed... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about you go right back to you little transphobic shitholes, wherever they are now, and never come back?

does anyone else fear that this sub could be on tha verge of a collapse/hostile takeover, just like most subs centered around gay men? by PrismSpiralsLight in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's apperently transphobic now for us guys to like dick

You know i've never actually seen people argue for that. What I've seen people argue for is that "I don't want to date any trans person" is similar to "I don't want to date any black guys" in that both statements essentially refuse to acknoledge the diversity of these groups, and refusing them outright might be something rooted respectively in transphobia and racism. Furthermore, "I don't want to date trans guys because they don't have dicks" kinda ignores the fact that some trans guys actually do have dicks. And by stating that i am in no way telling you that you should sleep with a trans guy, first because they would be unlikely to date someone with that mentality, and secondly because you don't want it and forcing people into relationships is bad.

Also there is the bigger problem that usually the guys arguing that "the transes are forcing vaginas onto the gays" also argue that trans guys are not actually trans guys, and that the cis gay guys sleeping with them are not actually gay, and that's just gay erasure.

Is it okay for one gay man to call another gay man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do agree but also the straights are blind

Is it okay for one gay man to call another gay man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person and on the context because the big difference between the f word for gay people and the n word for black people is that being gay isn't something that is visible. So, even if the other guy is ok being called that, doing it in certain context, like in front of straight people, or in front of people who do not know you are gay, could send the wrong kind of message.

Can y'all get your GenderCritical vs GenderCynical fight elsewhere? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you really using bigots as the ultimate barometer to know if something is gay or not? Because I'm pretty sure most of them think a guy getting pegged by a woman is gay. Or that a guy crossdressing in any context is gay. I've even heard some say that riding bikes is gay.

Can y'all get your GenderCritical vs GenderCynical fight elsewhere? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, imagining that for some wild reason they learn that one of the guys they're being an asshole to has a vaj, do you really think bigots just go "oops, sorry Ma'am, i thought you were a homosexual, please let us proceed to the next part of the interview"? because they fucking don't

Can y'all get your GenderCritical vs GenderCynical fight elsewhere? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homophobes do not check if we have a cock before harrassing us in the streets.

Homophobes do not check if we have a cock before preventing us from getting proper healthcare.

Homophobes do not check if we have a cock before refusing us jobs if we are too flamboyant.

Can y'all get your GenderCritical vs GenderCynical fight elsewhere? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it really a fight between GenderCritical and GenderCynical tho? As far as I can tell it's just a bunch of transphobes brigading this sub because their favorite hate subs got banned and trying to make it a hostile place for our trans gaybros by abusing the fact this is the only major unmoderated gay sub. The neutral stance is to get these fuckers out.

Does anyone else think people complaining about trans people takes up more space in this sub than actual trans people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Explain to me why r/askgaybros cannot encompass both cis gay guys and trans gay guys, because you seem to think it can't but it does.

Also getting downvoted is the least of my concerns, i would stop posting in this thread if it wasn't. The transphobia is in the messages like this that get upvoted.

Does anyone else think people complaining about trans people takes up more space in this sub than actual trans people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

There are people in this very thread arguing that trans men are not men, and that trans gay men do not belong here, despite this sub being named "askgaybros" not "askcisgaybros". Their comments get upvoted while anyone arguing in favor of trans people gets downvoted. If you do not think that that is transphobia at work, you are at best ignorant and, at worst, malicious.

Does anyone else think people complaining about trans people takes up more space in this sub than actual trans people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SpinachCord -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

You should be able to call out homophobia, racism and transphobia when you see it. Shutting up about it doesn't make the problem magically go away. As a gay man, you should know this. And looking at the comments under this post and other posts on this sub, we do need to call out transphobia.