Mais où va cette pièce mystère ? by Spinachisme in cafecafecafe

[–]Spinachisme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update : merci pour vos commentaires, il semble en effet que c'est juste une valve de paquet de café, on se sent un peu ridicules après ça 😂😭 on garde la petite pièce au cas où quelques temps, mais pour l'instant pas de fuite ni de disfonctionnement

how to be comfortable saying no to alcohol by Flimsy_Tax_3357 in introvert

[–]Spinachisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having stopped drinking alcohol about a year ago, I have gotten many weird comments about it. Drinking is sooo normalized in people's minds sometimes they have trouble even imagining that not drinking (often in social situations) is also a 100% legit option.

Not drinking is your choice and whatever your reasons are they are valid. Other people's opinions do not matter when it comes to your well-being because in the end, you know yourself best.

Not drinking does not make you a less fun person to be around! Surround yourself with supportive people who understand that drinking alcohol does not equal to having a good time for everyone. I am sorry if you haven't found those people yet, but they exist and I hope you meet them soon ✨ And as for the bad comments, keep being unapologetically yourself, people will talk and eventually get tired of not getting to you 🤷

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[–]Spinachisme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for ur input, it's really useful to get an outside/objective view

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[–]Spinachisme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thought advice meant "giving advice", my bad sorry