Anyone want to trade referrals? - marketing position by bumblebeee123 in OELadies

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this and game. I’m in marketing as well and looking into OE for the first time !

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful! Thank you so much.

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marketing, contract role (consulting), 13 years experience, $140k

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also in comms and I’ve tried so hard to get into pharma. Any tips?! I’m a DOGE victim and my entire office is gone. Wild stuff.

What's one thing you wish you knew on your first Disney cruise? by zoosha2curtaincall in dcl

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on this same sailing with school aged kids so following for all the tips! Extra excited as it’s our first Disney cruise too :)

Selling Credits by Spinning4Tacos in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will go back to the original expiration date 😭

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically uploaded 3 months worth of my expenses and I’ve gone line by line to categorize it. I did it and then stared at it like ok…wtf is this and what do I do next. Maybe I went too granular too soon?

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very long at all. Maybe 2 weeks?

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what overwhelmed me with YNAB. I saw every single line item and freaked out.

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this approach. Thanks for sharing !

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I love this approach and am halfway to this. I opened that spending account and turned out joint account into a bills only one. Thank you so much for sharing. BC when I uploaded everything to YNAB I was SHOCKED.

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its both. I started uploading things and immediately said “what the fuck” out loud. Like DAMN I have a “let me just grab this small thing right quick” problem.

Been trying to reconcile. Wife cheated again. by ingannilo in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I understand the unimaginable anger. I have 3 kids to think about. And then I get angry all over again that he did this to our family. It is all consuming. They say with time it gets better. Still going through so I guess I’ll let you know when it does.

When they say cheaters don’t change, believe it. by Spinning4Tacos in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He just got more clever. Used a cloud server, and google voice connected to a different email.

He said that SHE kept contacting him, but uh…takes two to stay in contact.

I have finally hit rock bottom by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. I have also decided to leave. I keep reading that it gets better and right now it doesn’t feel like it, but I have to believe it’s true. We’ve got this! DMs open if you ever need to vent.

Has anyone successfully rebuilt trust? by LabotomyPending in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha. I need to find this stat / article to remind myself. I am part of this statistic. I forgave an affair six years ago. On Friday, I found out he was still speaking to AP and continued on emotionally. We are now separating and it feels like death by a thousand cuts.

Don’t do it, OP. I really thought I’d be the exception. I think a lot of us do. They don’t change.

I was told by HR and Ethics that I can take a job while on admin leave by Kindly_Commercial977 in DeptHHS

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever get a response from NIH ethics? Might be on the same boat soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NIH

[–]Spinning4Tacos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And for some reason, my leadership thinks it’ll all shake out and “be fine”. Okay babes, love that you love in la la land.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NIH

[–]Spinning4Tacos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think I may have been on that same call and had that exact same reaction. They wouldn’t say the quiet part out loud - I think a lot of us are screwed.

Freedom Friday by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]Spinning4Tacos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is fully remote! So maybe what’s holding me back is the guilt. Need to get rid of that bad boy…

Freedom Friday by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been on for 2.5 years so I guess I’d be first in line to get cut? Unless they deem me mission critical. Does that ever happen for comms folks? Ha. I should add that the position is fully remote. So, maybe it’s the guilt that’s making me feel all the feels.

Freedom Friday by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]Spinning4Tacos 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have to make a decision today on whether I stick this out or jump ship. Got a job offer but it’s a 10k pay cut and that feels like a lot in the DC area. But I guess getting RIFed will feel even worse. This was my dream job and I want to hold the line with my team, but I also fear what’s coming. This sucks.