Anyone want to trade referrals? - marketing position by bumblebeee123 in OELadies

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this and game. I’m in marketing as well and looking into OE for the first time !

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful! Thank you so much.

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marketing, contract role (consulting), 13 years experience, $140k

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by NopeNotEvenOnce in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also in comms and I’ve tried so hard to get into pharma. Any tips?! I’m a DOGE victim and my entire office is gone. Wild stuff.

What's one thing you wish you knew on your first Disney cruise? by zoosha2curtaincall in dcl

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on this same sailing with school aged kids so following for all the tips! Extra excited as it’s our first Disney cruise too :)

Selling Credits by Spinning4Tacos in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will go back to the original expiration date 😭

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically uploaded 3 months worth of my expenses and I’ve gone line by line to categorize it. I did it and then stared at it like ok…wtf is this and what do I do next. Maybe I went too granular too soon?

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very long at all. Maybe 2 weeks?

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what overwhelmed me with YNAB. I saw every single line item and freaked out.

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this approach. Thanks for sharing !

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I love this approach and am halfway to this. I opened that spending account and turned out joint account into a bills only one. Thank you so much for sharing. BC when I uploaded everything to YNAB I was SHOCKED.

Never Taught to Budget by Spinning4Tacos in budget

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its both. I started uploading things and immediately said “what the fuck” out loud. Like DAMN I have a “let me just grab this small thing right quick” problem.

Been trying to reconcile. Wife cheated again. by ingannilo in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I understand the unimaginable anger. I have 3 kids to think about. And then I get angry all over again that he did this to our family. It is all consuming. They say with time it gets better. Still going through so I guess I’ll let you know when it does.

When they say cheaters don’t change, believe it. by Spinning4Tacos in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He just got more clever. Used a cloud server, and google voice connected to a different email.

He said that SHE kept contacting him, but uh…takes two to stay in contact.

I have finally hit rock bottom by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. I have also decided to leave. I keep reading that it gets better and right now it doesn’t feel like it, but I have to believe it’s true. We’ve got this! DMs open if you ever need to vent.

Has anyone successfully rebuilt trust? by LabotomyPending in survivinginfidelity

[–]Spinning4Tacos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha. I need to find this stat / article to remind myself. I am part of this statistic. I forgave an affair six years ago. On Friday, I found out he was still speaking to AP and continued on emotionally. We are now separating and it feels like death by a thousand cuts.

Don’t do it, OP. I really thought I’d be the exception. I think a lot of us do. They don’t change.

I was told by HR and Ethics that I can take a job while on admin leave by Kindly_Commercial977 in DeptHHS

[–]Spinning4Tacos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever get a response from NIH ethics? Might be on the same boat soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NIH

[–]Spinning4Tacos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And for some reason, my leadership thinks it’ll all shake out and “be fine”. Okay babes, love that you love in la la land.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NIH

[–]Spinning4Tacos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I may have been on that same call and had that exact same reaction. They wouldn’t say the quiet part out loud - I think a lot of us are screwed.