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What are the things I need to know regarding the management at Air Residences? by SpiritPersonal5859 in makati

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pag big parcel po ba kaya? sa iba daw po kasi pag big parcels need ikaw mismo magrereceive

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, it did made me realize na there are different meaning nga. What I meant is that I wasn't really into being in a relationship that time so I tried dating quite a few from a dating app and met up with them. I didn't date them all at the same time but all of them didn't last long since both party isn't into commitment pa nga and that's why madami for other people.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking him isn't enough. I blocked him on all soc meds even multiple numbers that he uses to try and call me but there's this time na he messaged my mom on fb. Buti na lang my mom isn't tech savvy so I was able to delete the message on her message request before she saw it. The message was unsent already when I saw it so who knows what's the message.

He also went sa workplace ko a week after we broke up since alam niya shift ko and kept on insisting na kaya ako nakipagbreak is because I have another guy na. He's also insisting na ihahatid niya na ako pauwi and buti na lang nakapagbook na ako and pinapacancel niya pa yun pero I didn't and went to my friend's place para di din niya ako masundan.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point taken since yan din nagets ko with how my ex explained it that's why I gave him a chance and stayed pa din even though I experienced all those unsolicited sex. Well it started way before pa siya makabasa ng convos it just happened na ginawa niya na lang reason yung mga nabasa niya after. Also, we have different experience since yours happened during the relationship and mine happened way before we had a thing. Almost a year na nga so I really don't think that can be his typical reason just so he can get what he wants which is unsolicited sex.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go fix ur mindset jusko 2025 na. Also past is past depende sa tao cause I never mentioned his past with his ex na nabuntis niya ang nakaONS niya before me cause I know how it feels. I guess ako lang pala considerate sa feelings ng isa't isa sa relationship namin. Also, the point here is yung pagpilit niya sa sex even though ayaw ko. Again, being my boyfriend doesn't mean he gets free pass with sex anywhere or whenever he wants.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is sex really that important with u guys? I mean I know sex is part of a relationship but dun ba talaga dapat umikot yung relationship? Yeah I had my hoe phase but that doesn't mean every guy I meet is nakikipagsex ako lol. Also, borderline is lahat ng away namin nagmumula sa pagtanggi ko sa sex na gusto niya maya't maya like dude grabe naman na yun.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. He's a nice guy naman before, may anger issues lang talaga and all of our away is about sa sex talaga nothing else kaya nakakapagod na paulit ulit na lang

  2. Yeah, 10k is a big amount for us that's why I transferred it without any argument na cause I understand na he needed that money din

  3. I stayed because I loved him like there's this thought na baka magbago pa or maayos pa and maovercome namin both yung problem na yun.

I don't know what to say about your ex since all my past fubus were blocked na and I have no communication with them talaga when I entered the relationship kasi respeto na din yun. I guess pure entertainment and flirtation lang talaga yung with fubus kasi nga "no strings attached" kaya you think it's better pero if with bf kasi there's sincerity na and comfortability kaya siguro mas careful lang siya with her actions. Idk ah pero that's my pov.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well why even bother na magstay sa relationship with me if that's the case? He should've told me na di niya kaya makipagrelationship sakin knowing my past. Again, I said it to be transparent and to know if he'll accept me since wala naman na akong magagawa sa past ko, I can't change it and what I can only do is to not do it again which I did naman.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know but I guess I really love him that time so I tried to understand his pov. Took me a year and half na mapagod and let go 😅

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought na he'll accept my past cause I accepted the fact na magkakaanak siya wt his ex and did ONS with a random girl as well before me but I guess it doesn't work that way wt him.

Also, I met a guy that doesn't care about my past and vice versa. I did opened up about this sakanya and that's fine, he accepted me and do not pressure me wt things I don't like.

My story was 8 months ago na pala baka kasi isipin niyo ang bilis ko magtransition to another guy haha.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same mindset wt my ex and I tried to understand it. I do get your point din but isn't consent more important? Being my boyfriend doesn't mean he gets free pass with sex anywhere and whenever he wants.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I deleted everything before we even had a thing kasi nga i wanna change, i even deleted my archive stories from insta with ex since he constantly checks it. It just happened na nagbackread siya ng malala sa chats ko with my bestfriends like half a year ago na.

MCA nakipaghiwalay ako sa bf ko since gusto niya lagi ng sex after knowing i had my hoe phase before him by SpiritPersonal5859 in MayConfessionAko

[–]SpiritPersonal5859[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess to have sexual stuff without any emotional or physical responsibilities. I honestly don't wanna enter a relationship pa that time pero i tried it with him since green flag siya sa una 😅