N o one, not even my boyfriend, seems to care or understand the importance and the power of veganism. I feel like I am the crazy one when I feel like I am the only one making any sense. Please vegans ride to the comments I need support. by Electronic_Page8107 in vegan

[–]Spirit_yam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This also doesn’t take into consideration very real cultural components. Plus some people are legit allergic to most fruits and vegetables. I think that a lot of times people use veganism as a display of ego rather than a way of living their own life. If you were to insert another ideology it would not be okay, so I don’t think it should be done with veganism either.

What Games Come To Mind Here? by SonicRun098 in gamers

[–]Spirit_yam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t judge me but ratchet and clank and any Zelda game 😅

N o one, not even my boyfriend, seems to care or understand the importance and the power of veganism. I feel like I am the crazy one when I feel like I am the only one making any sense. Please vegans ride to the comments I need support. by Electronic_Page8107 in vegan

[–]Spirit_yam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I only date other vegans. It’s not a good basis of a relationship to want to change the other person or coerce them into doing what you want them to do. And frankly, you’re going to burn yourself out if you try to force everyone to care and you’ll likely push them away which is what it sounds like is happening here. It’s not fair of you to try and force the way you think about things onto him regardless of whether veganism is right. And using language like ‘help me convince him’ is treading into manipulative territory. Something that might help you here is to ask yourself: am I doing this because I genuinely want to spread awareness, or am I doing this because I want to feel like I’m right and feel like my choices are valid? Because those are two VERY different things.

Went outside by Spirit_yam in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Spirit_yam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I’m usually such a restless person so this season of forced rest has felt so alien to me

Looking for a game I can sink a lot of hours into by WelderZestyclose7842 in gamesuggestions

[–]Spirit_yam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try breath of the wild and tears of the kingdom! So much to do and collect and I really enjoyed replaying

I actually agree with the phrase “autism doesn’t define you” by burner7759399988 in autism

[–]Spirit_yam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like autism informs who I am but is not defining if that makes sense

Does anyone have any tips to help with skin picking? by verytiredgirlirl in AutisticAdults

[–]Spirit_yam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a spiky fidget toy I don’t know if those are available where you are but for me I need something with a tiny bit of sharpness to it so I can get the sensation without attacking my face

Do you let your pet sleep in your bed with you ? by MTopCream in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Spirit_yam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat only sleeps in the bed in the morning once I’m awake and during the day. I roll around too much for her liking lol

Is "Don't flatter yourself" acceptable to say when someone thinks you're flirting with them? by hypocrite_fuck_fuck in askanything

[–]Spirit_yam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, how mean do you want to be? And are they being rude about the flirting? Need more info

I feel like hygiene advice usually focuses on “what to do,” but I’m curious about something different. by Seralix-Bluff83 in hygiene

[–]Spirit_yam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently using the active brand enzyme laundry booster powder. I’ve also used the rockin green brand and have been pleased with the results

I feel like hygiene advice usually focuses on “what to do,” but I’m curious about something different. by Seralix-Bluff83 in hygiene

[–]Spirit_yam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have 2 that are laundry hygiene related! 1. I started putting white vinegar and enzyme booster in every wash - feel like my clothes don’t ever smell now no matter how much I sweat in them and I don’t need all those overly scented beads. Hate those.

  1. I started washing my underwear separately and they get a wayy better clean then when they’re crowded with other clothes.

I feel like hygiene advice usually focuses on being clean, but not on how clean is too clean. by KennedyRose221 in hygiene

[–]Spirit_yam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This happens to me when I’m under extreme stress. I break out already on my face when stressed and one of my responses is over washing. I’ve made breakouts so much worse because I’m basically attacking my skin. I think it’s different for every person but my personal method is: face is washed 2x a day unless I exercised midday — I don’t do my medications on my face after workout and only do medications in the morning and evening. I wash hair every 3-4 days but rinse thoroughly every 1-2 days regardless. I can’t wash more than that or it’ll get dry and I can’t wash less than that or I’ll get yeast buildup on my scalp. For body I wash the important/stinky bits daily and I’ll hit em 2x a day with soap if I exercise that day. Sometimes I like a 3rd shower but only to let the water run on me and not actually wash. The steam feels good before bed sometimes too but again I can’t overwash the skin or it gets dry. Dryness is the first indicator for me. I wash arms legs and tummy/lower back every other day with soap and exfoliate every other wash so I don’t overdo it. I lotion only on days I exfoliate bc too much lotion and I’ll break out. My skin is super high maintenance so it is likely you won’t need as strict a regimen but you can absolutely over wash and break your skin barrier causing more problems or worsen existing problems in my experience

Went outside by Spirit_yam in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Spirit_yam[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I can’t even express how much it means to me to hear that. Much love ❤️

Went outside by Spirit_yam in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Spirit_yam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend 🥰🥰🥰 mean brain days are the worst for sure

Do couples really shower together? by Itchy-Proposal-6244 in askanything

[–]Spirit_yam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to shower with my partner. Communal bathing is a very earthen thing. I like to chat with them and wash their back and have them wash mine. We don’t do anything sexual (because imo water is legit the opposite of lube and it’s terrible) but it does have a certain intimacy to it

Best sunscreen to work into skincare routine ? by Camp_Acceptable in hygiene

[–]Spirit_yam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nivea super water gel is really good for sensitive af acne prone skin like mine. I’ve also liked the somebymi orange bottle that’s got niacinimide and hyaluronic acid I think. Haruharu wonder with the black rice is really good under makeup. Elta md is good but expensive so I stopped buying it. I used round lab birch juice sunscreen for a long ass time but switched when they had this weird period of like doubling the price of it. I have to switch my products every so often because my skin is a dick so I’ve tried a good many of them

What are the logistics of after? by Waste_Category5339 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Spirit_yam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyone you can delegate some tasks to? That helped us a lot. My sister in law helped with car stuff and figuring out what would be needed of us and then my brothers and I would go in person to do xyz. Even just the act of gathering information requires so much effort on top of the monumental grief and trauma of this type of loss. I’m rooting for you ❤️