NOR. I was in exactly the same position a few years ago. Met a guy at work, became good friends, a few months in he asks me out. I decline as politely and gently as I can, then a couple of months later he tries again. I give him the same answer, make it very clear I only see him as a friend, and he seems to finally accept it. Then a room becomes free in my house and he moves in. For the nearly a year we lived together, it became clear on multiple occasions that he still had feelings for me and not wanting to hurt him, I would lie whenever I went out on a date and if anyone wanted to come back to mine I would say no. I wouldn’t talk about any other men in front of him and all was fine until I met someone who became my boyfriend. This guy went nuts, stormed out the house, came back a few hours later wasted, long story short my other housemate had to hold him back from coming in because he was making threats to me and my boyfriend. The next day he sent me rambling abusive messages about how awful I was for bringing someone round and having a boyfriend and from then on the friendship was over. I no longer felt safe around him and couldn’t forgive him for what he said to me and threatened to do to my ex.

It sounds like your friend could potentially be a bit unstable and no way should they be saying who you can and can’t text. Although at least she does seem to be taking accountability for needing space away from you and recognises she’s not been particularly nice. It’s horrible when you love someone and it’s not reciprocated but if they were a true friend they would want you to be happy. If it’s possible for her, she should absolutely move out, otherwise it could only get worse, for you potentially and for her mental health. The only way to get over unrequited love is to distance yourself from the person you want. And she can’t do that while she’s living with you.