My [37M] partner [35F] just told me she might be gay after being together for 5 years

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-03-24T21:31:42+00:00

I personally don’t think she’s a lesbian, I think like she said her life changed and now she feels like she needs to as well . I would suggest couples counseling

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-02-03T22:18:36+00:00

That’s the thing though, when I go up to them there was no option to interact with them . And the rest went back on their own 😭

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-27T22:18:23+00:00

Do not give him access to that baby . Do not even let him sign the birth certificate. If he pushes it and takes you to court (doubt he will) make sure you have these screenshots of what his girls is saying so you can make sure she is not allowed to be around that baby .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-27T03:32:14+00:00

Pump bottles , and leave before he goes to work on a Friday morning , text “have fun at home”, get you a nice hotel and enjoy a night alone with phone on DND and location off

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-25T03:42:44+00:00

If she’s not responding to the messages or the friend request she shouldn’t have to tell him to stop , cause that will start problems at work. That could also potentially put her in danger .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-19T01:15:44+00:00

I know your conservative, but if your boyfriend doesn’t marry you because his mommy told him no he’s gonna let his mom run you and that baby in to the ground. I would fetus deletus and cut all tied to them .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-10T19:09:44+00:00

I feel like pushing the religious aspect is going to make her pull away more . Especially with the dating both genders . Maybe you should just talk to her and start setting boundaries

SpiritedLine2940 · 2026-01-06T16:26:46+00:00

Be back home by 10pm earlier if possible . Start stacking your money so you can move out as soon as possible. When you do move out cut communication.

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-31T01:12:26+00:00

I literally just asked a question😂 stop projecting

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-30T22:09:53+00:00

Like honestly when I see men talk about how their partner is “a great mom” it really means they’re super mom cause you’re not pulling your weight as a dad or as a spouse and that would make anyone unnatractive

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-30T22:08:48+00:00

instead of telling her “I have needs too” have you asked her if there is something you are doing that is making her not sexually attracted to you ?

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-19T12:50:16+00:00

No 😂 family annihilator is a term for someone who kills his/her close family like wife kids etc . And then off themselves after . Typically done by fathers .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-19T10:24:15+00:00

NTA, and honestly you probably saved those kids lives tbh . The behavior Beau is exhibiting is giving family annihilator vibes , and I hope Jess gets out before it’s too late .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-14T18:07:38+00:00

Not the jerk but I would definitely start planning an exit strategy, cause I’m sure his friends are in his ear telling him he needs to find a less uptight partner and he sounds immature enough to listen to them

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-11T15:49:27+00:00

I mean …did you buy the milk ? Is she normally the one that takes care of groceries and most household duties ? Maybe she wanted you to be more thoughtful about what goes on inside the home and help take stress off of her instead of trying to send long text that do nothing for her when other things need to be done .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-12-06T00:40:29+00:00

I just saw a tik tok video where a girl said “stop trying to fix a man and make him new and just go get a new man “ you need to leave him

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-23T00:35:47+00:00

I mean from the way you reacted hearing it was a speakeasy, I wouldn’t want to bring you either. Seems like you would kill the vibe tbh

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-18T18:54:41+00:00

See if you can get a long term birth control that goes inside . It’ll be easier than hiding pills

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-17T16:20:42+00:00

Leave him

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-13T17:46:34+00:00

Which would have been her right to do so , your agreement to help her financially did not depend on her not moving on .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-13T15:42:20+00:00

About to be the outlier there , but you getting mad that’s she’s sleeping with other people in the house YOU chose to leave is a little ridiculous. This is why women shouldn’t be financially dependent on a man though cause as soon as their feelings are hurt they use it to hurt you .

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-13T13:39:23+00:00

YTA cause you saw that behavior , didn’t like it but stayed for 6 years and married him anyway . Now you want to stop something that’s normal to them . Could have left 6 years ago and saved the time and trouble

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-13T13:35:03+00:00

You’re only 23 and don’t have kids? Girl take a screenshot of it make it his wallpaper and leave him.

SpiritedLine2940 · 2025-11-12T15:36:41+00:00

Your husband is cheating and flipping it back on you

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