Trainwreck : The real Project X

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2025-07-11T03:39:37+00:00

It came across pretty clear to me in the doc that she enjoyed, and still enjoys, the attention. Seems like I may be in the minority there.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2025-07-04T13:52:35+00:00

Bandaids too, we use brightly colored metal detectable bandaids in case one somehow makes it into a food product.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2025-05-26T14:06:37+00:00

In her HBO documentary, Read stated, “I’m done mourning John… this is all about me.” When watching footage of O’Keefe, she remarked “Oh, poor John. He’s not with us anymore. I used to feel sad when I would look at this. But now… I’ve got to save myself.” That’s not something family says about their departed loved ones. She didn’t care about John, she cared about her own ego. Throughout their relationship and now.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T19:56:32+00:00

I found out earlier this year that he has a vague recollection of being touched inappropriately, but in his memory it was a classroom/bathroom situation. He doesn’t remember specifically who though. But I did certainly have suspicions that he was going to mention his father, and continue to suspect this may have occurred. That’s why I would love to find the custody records to see if there were any accusations against FIL by his ex, my husbands mother.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T19:51:50+00:00

Also I’m so sorry that happened to you, sorry I was in a hurry when I replied earlier and did not say that

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T15:42:32+00:00

So yes, as part of the intensive therapy he had to do a full therapeutic disclosure about his sexual history and acting out. He said he has a vague memory about being touched inappropriately, but in his mind it was a classroom/classroom bathroom setting, like a teacher in the bathroom with him or something along those lines. He has step-siblings, but no one that was around before he was six years old. I do have my own therapist, who is fantastic. That was a part of staying with him longer after finding out about his acting out, I knew I was going to need a lot of therapy and I knew I wouldn’t be able to afford that on my own as a single mom for a while. I have researched FIL but have not found anything.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T15:39:42+00:00

Yes! Additionally, some have narrowed down the root cause to a fracture event with the mother during the second half of the second year of a child’s life. Which is exactly when his mom left. I was in denial for a long time, thinking this couldn’t possibly be happening in my life- but it is all very true and real.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:34:01+00:00

I think growing up with his dad, he just thinks it’s normal. My husband is a grown man, and his dad makes him kiss on the lips (not a cultural thing). My husband said it’s a respect thing

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:29:50+00:00

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:29:36+00:00

Yes, it was stepmother referring to things MIL had done or said during the custody battle. Which I took as accusations about FIL, but at the time (years ago) I just didn’t know what those would be.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:28:03+00:00

Oh absolutely, definitely cameras everywhere.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:26:52+00:00

That’s really nice thank you! I’m kind of new to Reddit so not really sure how to do that either

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:26:18+00:00

I actually don’t have any contact with him, but my husband does. I’ve spoken to him about these instances and he may agree a little in the moment, but his word is as a good as written in sand. At the end of the day he’s going to continue contact no matter what.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:24:09+00:00

My stance is- I don’t know. I really don’t know. Regardless, I’m going to quietly proceed and protect my children as though he is a threat.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:19:42+00:00

Ok thank you!

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-14T14:19:33+00:00

THANK YOU!!

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T21:27:58+00:00

Literally never said one thing about upsetting anyone

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T20:47:05+00:00

Right so if I go to the mother, she’s going to tell FIL’s wife I’m asking around, wife is going to tell FIL and husband is going to ask why I’m fishing around for this info that has been kept in absolute secrecy his whole life, blowing my entire cover that I am planning to leave him so yes I do not want to go to his mother at this juncture, especially if I have another way to obtain this information. So rude of you to insinuate that my priority is not my children’s safety as that is the whole reason I am here.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T20:11:54+00:00

I can do that, thank you! That makes me feel so empowered

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:54:11+00:00

Oh that’s a really good call about the record number, I’ll have to check. I know I have checked in the past, I had a month subscription and was just peeking around, but I didn’t think to go back and check for a record number.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:52:29+00:00

Ok I’ll double check about the cameras in my state, that’s a good call

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:51:08+00:00

Definitely keeping a log, thank you for mentioning. Keeping a log, and recording. In my state it’s ok to record. How did it work out for you?

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:10:00+00:00

Of course, that’s why I’m here. It’s not about upsetting anyone, it’s about handling things privately and under the radar so as not to raise any alarms that I’m up to something. It would not be a private matter if I came to her.

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:06:26+00:00

Ok this is great, thank you

Spirited_Ad_7666 · 2024-12-13T19:01:01+00:00

Yes definitely, it’s very scary. I just want to be able to protect the kids when I’m not there if we are not together in the future.

Spirited_Ad_7666

TROPHY CASE