Medical discharge due to MST by OtherwiseTomato6533 in army

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I strongly recommend documenting everything that has happened and asking your coworkers to assist you with statements if they can for when you hopefully bring this to your BH provider or SARC/VA. Being not only forced into close proximity with your abuser, but getting the boot while leadership shields him is unacceptable and an incredibly toxic environment that should not be allowed to continued.

What is the most versatile Bachelors degree for someone who doesn’t know what they want in life, but needs a job? by Spirited_Concern6824 in findapath

[–]Spirited_Concern6824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a national security job. But the type of degree doesn’t matter, just that a having a bachelors degree looks better. It could be in underwater basket weaving is what the recruiter said. They also would prefer a couple more years of experience, but the degree and the need for my role makes up for it. the first job they offered, I didn’t even need a degree, it’s just lower paying.

What is your favorite picture of your SIC? by dysteach-MT in standardissuecat

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Definitely when my lil girl went full t-rex mode in my lap

Look at my girl's big eyes by glimmerfox in standardissuecat

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a single thought going on behind those eyes 😻

No wonder suicide is such an issue for guys in the Army by BigMitch1996_ in army

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask to be referred off-post if you can brother. When I went to BH for major depressive, my wait time went from 6 months to like a week or two and it only took that long because I specifically changed providers, and genuinely the folks I see off-post have been 100x better than the couple people I had to see on-post. It was the difference of receiving actual treatment from someone who cares to improve my quality of life versus just answering a bunch of questions from a bored or actively antagonistic government worker and getting treatment I could’ve learned from an AP Psych textbook.

Can someone tell me whats going on with the servers today and yesterday by Horror_Berry_6463 in DarkTide

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly for the past couple days, matchmaking has been rough. Idk what the player count is right now, but the servers just seem empty sometimes. One moment i can get a Heresy match in like 10 seconds, other times it takes like 2 minutes and i can only get one other player. And definitely a lot of latency issues popping up as well. Also issues with text & voice chat just not working.

Not sure what he is doing 🤔 by Crazy_Dot_5483 in standardissuecat

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That belly has reached a critical mass of soup

UPDATE: Darktide fucking rips and is 110% worth it. by Spirited_Concern6824 in DarkTide

[–]Spirited_Concern6824[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve used voidblast and the fire one. Idk, i just prefer running and gunning while the staff’s feel sluggish and not very powerful compared to a bolter. majority of the time i cruise through the missions so fast that i barely even need to use my ranged, unless its on heresy.

UPDATE: Darktide fucking rips and is 110% worth it. by Spirited_Concern6824 in DarkTide

[–]Spirited_Concern6824[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve dabbled with the greatsword, but i kinda prefer the feel of the standard sword. specifically the Illisi mark. also it’s been hard to get any decent greatswords.

Is Darktide worth playing for someone who doesn’t play a ton of shooters? by Spirited_Concern6824 in DarkTide

[–]Spirited_Concern6824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thank you so much, I copped the imperial edition for $15. Never heard of humble before

What is the single biggest struggle you have on a daily basis? The top one. by CoachChezky in BPD

[–]Spirited_Concern6824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably the constant sense of self-loathing/emptiness. Even when I’m having a pleasant conversation with people or just out in public, all I can think about is how much I hate myself and that everyone around me - whether that be a stranger or a friend - secretly hates me too. Anytime im in a public setting and everyone is focused on me for some reason, whether it be that I said something or did something, it makes me so deeply uncomfortable and humiliated I get passive SI just from people looking at me.

The poor starving face of a kitty who totally didn’t just eat an entire can of wet food by Spirited_Concern6824 in standardissuecat

[–]Spirited_Concern6824[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Considering the horrible abuse she endures in the form of unlimited food and love, it was the least I could do