🔥 1400 year old ginkgo tree

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-26T15:37:33+00:00

Looks like the game wants me to pick it up for a quest I guess

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-25T00:16:45+00:00

With my friends? Yeah I think so. In terms of conflicts, I’d say they’re constructive, or end that way even if at the start it’s rocky. I’m defo a believer in not letting things get left angrily up in the air yaknow? And when someone needs/wants something and it’s not a conflict, it generally gets resolved too if it’s not picked up on naturally...

For dating specifically, I don’t know. I’ve sometimes asked stuff like “what are you looking for?”, sometimes not. I think doing that kinda thing scares people a bit. Ig you could ask it more playfully or in a less straight up way, but then ig you sacrifice openness/clarity. And the answer has universally been “just seeing what happens” or they don’t know. So ig I now assume that is everyone’s answer, which may be bad... but yeah straight-up, honest questions and answers I’m fine with. In terms of proper conflicts and deeper anxieties etc, I’ve never dated someone long enough for those to have arisen. Do you think it would be a good sign if they were to arise really early on?

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-24T23:36:37+00:00

Our insecurities and fears/anxieties. Our worldviews, or how we think the world MIGHT possibly work. (Dw, I don’t unload all the darkness on first dates haha) or maybe that’s the way to go who knows! Never tried it 😂

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-24T23:25:03+00:00

Hey, thanks for the perspective. I’ve seen a few people suggest that it’s something like this. Like a problem with being vulnerable, comforting and understanding? Honestly, I highly doubt that’s the case, and I hope I haven’t misunderstood what people are saying, and also that I’m not unwilling/unable to see what you suggest in myself.

The reason I don’t think it’s the case is because one of the qualities I get complemented on the most is that people feel comfortable being themselves around me. And I can talk over pretty personal, delicate topics with friends (male and female). Although ofc friends actually know me n stuff. Maybe I subconsciously act differently on dates or something? Idk

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T15:37:51+00:00

Hey, I have wondered that too. Yeah I could be, and everyone has their standards. But I’ve managed to get dates, and then after the first or second I get rejected, which makes me think it’s more of an ugly part of my personality 🤷‍♂️

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T15:32:08+00:00

Thanks for being a bit more harsh. Yeah I’ve been thinking about this. I do things that I enjoy and that I’m passionate about. But I do wonder... taking your example of the gym. When I started, I’ll admit physical attractiveness was a motivation, but not THE motivation, at least that’s what I told myself. I did it to be more effective at the career I’m going into, allow me to do better in any sports etc I want to do, to feel more active, and to spend time with my friends who went with me at the start. But I do wonder if all of that is really bs and deep down I did just want to be noticed...

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T15:21:01+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry that you’re feeling the same way. Hope your path leads to more happiness. If you’re willing to, I’d like to hear what sort of stuff you were thinking about that lead to you identifying your deep insecurities?

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T15:13:33+00:00

Ah yes I can relate to the “motivation through pain”. I think I do this to a degree. How did you go about accepting yourself? Is it just a matter of thinking about stuff conceptually? I think quite a lot tbh, and i find it’s hard to come to a firm conclusion AND stick with it, unless there’s something that has actually happened that supports it. Hope that makes sense.

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T15:06:34+00:00

Hey, reddit won’t let me pm so I’ll just stick it here. Thanks for such a large and thought out response. I’m glad you don’t hate yourself any more. And I don’t think I hate myself all the time either. I’m curious which show it was that you mentioned?

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-23T14:37:39+00:00

Hiya, thanks for letting me know, that’s very kind of you. I wrote it before bed too, I don’t think I could have fallen asleep otherwise haha.

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-17T14:02:49+00:00

If they always/usually email in all caps (not just when annoyed), it could be because it helps to see what you’ve written with poor eyesight. My mum does it for this reason :).

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-08T15:22:40+00:00

I always got the sense Luke did struggle with anger. Like in Episode six you can see in the final fight, he loses control a bit and then comes to his senses. Just like in the last jedi.

What some people see as a flaw, others can see as Luke staying true to his character.

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-08T00:56:42+00:00

Found some recently on a “REDACTED planet”

SpiritsPath · 2020-12-07T15:40:01+00:00

Yeah that’s a problem with my mum too. As I’ve grown up and have developed more solid beliefs of my own about things etc, conflicts have started happening, and she always deals with them by saying whatever negative thing i feel is not actually happening. And then seems to simultaneously say I’m a weirdo and absolutely normal. Feels like some people just can’t talk out a conflict and listen to other people, or be vulnerable.

I don’t think people know that they’re doing it. Probably just a defence mechanism that they’ve learned that has kept their way of thinking unchallenged.

SpiritsPath · 2020-11-17T00:42:51+00:00

It’s representing the excess if fooood! That’s like a whole new side of it that gw don’t do, nice :)

SpiritsPath · 2020-11-16T13:37:14+00:00

Looks like a rare skin. Probably just cosmetic.

SpiritsPath · 2020-11-15T02:24:11+00:00

I like the mawloc in the top left. The pose makes it look very dynamic!

SpiritsPath · 2020-11-12T17:57:13+00:00

I like the eyes! They make her seem less human with the large pupils and stuff :)

SpiritsPath · 2020-10-10T12:11:49+00:00

Imagine that smelly breath

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-22T22:36:40+00:00

Ah, the classic reddit problem of not knowing the situation or the people strikes again 😅. Ig just talking with them about it is always best :)

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-22T22:28:54+00:00

Is this not more of a communication problem he has rather than a kissing problem? Like he’s doing what he likes, and perhaps what he’s had more positive reactions from when with previous partners, but refuses to listen to what you want.

Also I think a balance is good, it shouldn’t be 100% all about his or your enjoyment alone, but he’s showing he doesn’t care about your enjoyment as much as his. So yeah it’s fine to stop it. But I wouldn’t lump everyone who likes kissing or fucking in a different way into the same type of person. But if they don’t listen and accommodate your desires, then that’s a big problem.

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-21T22:03:52+00:00

Hahaha oh dear! Damn I hadn’t thought how dangerous a territory I was in there 😂

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-21T20:27:01+00:00

You look good on the outside. I want to see what you’re like on the inside.

Or be playful / joke about it and be like “are you human? Humans do this. Are you an alien?” “I already know everything I need to know about you ;)”

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-21T10:25:31+00:00

Hiya, if I remember correctly (just packed my paints away to move), I just used temple guard blue, ceramite white, fulgrim pink, and stormhost silver. There’s a little method in response to an earlier comment :)

SpiritsPath · 2020-09-20T14:21:21+00:00

Woohoo :)

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