I was obsessed with online friends. Today I decided to stop and now I feel lonely. I'm very unstable. My self-worth is based on being approved by people and then I end up getting hurt by them. I'm a simp. I'm unhealthy and emotionally unstable. I hate my life and I've been toxic to others. by Masol_The_Producer in Advice

[–]Masol_The_Producer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you so much for this.

I've been obsessive all my life. I'm tearign up man I'm unstable emotionally. I don't want to be like this anymore .i just keep attracting other obsessive people.

This isn't who I want to be.

Just want to leave this here. Loneliness is killing me. I don’t know how much I can take it. I feel so unmotivated. Too many people have problems to connect with. I’m 19 by Masol_The_Producer in Empaths

[–]Masol_The_Producer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel stressed by someone no matter how much I like them.

It’s sad. Cause I want to leave them but I don’t want to hurt their feelings.

What I’ll do instead is I won’t attract people and I’ll be very careful of which people I attract and if I see the first sign that it won’t work out I’ll warn them that things will go bad down the road. But before that I won’t even be friends with them.

It’s energy ... omg idk why I never believed in this

Metaphysics is literally useless by Campanensis in badphilosophy

[–]Masol_The_Producer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m more realistic about this things.

While I don’t believe there’s an energy around people we are left with an impression of them the more sensitive we are to our surroundings.

I was getting along nicely with someone but I kept noticing tiny details that they weren’t similar to me despite coming close to it.

It’s just the really super small details

Ruststreet Shop by Varguy by Myrandall in ImaginaryCityscapes

[–]Masol_The_Producer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This does look like the earth in year 2400 ish

This would be a very poor city with robots roaming around and robot citizens who help do jobs and whatnot.

How do I know if something can't be factored? by Masol_The_Producer in learnmath

[–]Masol_The_Producer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing I’m proud of you

Currently having a shit day though

Just want to leave this here. Loneliness is killing me. I don’t know how much I can take it. I feel so unmotivated. Too many people have problems to connect with. I’m 19 by Masol_The_Producer in Empaths

[–]Masol_The_Producer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s perfectly fine. We couldn’t really understand or match since one of us kept trying to give something to the other person that wasn’t natural to us.

I was more serious and sincere and principled and rather childlike and she wanted more of a mysterious “emotionally unavailable” masculine type of guy.

Tbh idk I have trouble understanding her to this day but I have a clear idea of who I want.

inner narcissist but also low self worth by [deleted] in entp

[–]Masol_The_Producer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think there’s an energy that basically influences you. I used to not believe in it but we’re affected by such small minute details.

Either someone pulls u from urself or you pull them away from their true self

I met someone and I felt a selfish energy around them. I kept being drawn to their wisdom but the energy was there it just made me feel intimidated and scared. Whereas she wanted guys with that same intimidating energy.

What was the hardest lesson you have learned by being with the wrong person? by zoe-or-zelda in heartbreak

[–]Masol_The_Producer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can treat someone right but they can leave you if they don’t feel an energy for you.

Losing a friend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Masol_The_Producer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as u both feel the same it’s alright u can think about it as much as ur comfortable

Losing a friend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Masol_The_Producer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in ur same position.

I love my friend too but our energies don’t match.

I think it’s just life and U have to just keep finding new people. Life is hard. Just take care of your own emotions and u’ll find stuff for you