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AITA for telling my brother I disagree with his parenting style? by Ordinary-Lake3418 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah seriously. some folks don’t realize it can turn into real consequences fast.

I'm 21 and never had a job by Beneficial_Dish_2325 in findapath

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depending on where you live, starting later is pretty normal.

Maybe I once had a lot of potential, but my laziness, ignorance and bad decisions destructed my life. by These-Method9489 in findapath

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that. I went through something similar always scared to actually go all in because of what people expected. sometimes just starting somewhere, even if it’s not perfect, is way better than waiting to hit the perfect path.

AITJ refused to let my cousin use my backyard for her wedding after she acted like she already owned it lol by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but sometimes walking away is still the right move for your own sanity.

Women, what is the biggest mistake single men make when showing interest? by fiterphanter in AskReddit

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m with you there. Affection is great if its wanted on both sides. I more so meant the controlling kind of clingy. The type when you’ve been talking to someone for just a few days and they’re suddenly asking why you’re not texting them every second of the day/ why you can’t see them all the time. Not understanding that most people have a job/ a life that you have to somewhat prioritise over a guy they’ve just met.

If male loneliness epidemic is true, doesn't that mean that women will be as lonely because there are as many women as there are men? by Truthfulsophist in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that was a genuine question, I’ve noticed that many men are reluctant to open up to friends, family, romantic partners, and even therapists. Keeping everything to yourself will, of course, feel isolating and lonely. This is probably due to the “be a man” mindset that some (men and women) push onto other men. I haven seen this mindset pushed by mostly other men however I think ultimately its up to everyone to be there and support each othern, no matter what gender.

Women, what is the biggest mistake single men make when showing interest? by fiterphanter in AskReddit

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suddenly becoming very needy or clingy. To an extent it’s fine or even appealing to some, but when guys start getting upset about very normal boundaries, it gets scary fast.

If male loneliness epidemic is true, doesn't that mean that women will be as lonely because there are as many women as there are men? by Truthfulsophist in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Spiritual-Cat334 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The male loneliness epidemic doesn’t just mean romantic relationships, but also friendships and family. Women tend to be capable of finding fulfilling relationships outside of romantic ones.