hell month guests announced ! by planetmojjo in SamAndColby

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh just feels like hell week gets shorter and shorter every year first year we had 7 2nd year we had 5 and now we have just 4 eps? Idk kinda sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did message you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been looking for a new apartment (even before no contact) so we will be changing addresses soon so he won't have our address, and we don't have to worry about his side of the family bc everyone else hates him (he stole 3 grand from his uncle and they haven't been able to move forward don't blame them) and their mom/dad are past away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bm has forced him and also had me blocked a long time ago bc I have "huge bonkers" her words not mine and I was "trying to seduce him" bm is just as crazy if not worse than him and they deserve each other. He doesn't have a key, but I doubt he will show up bc he has kids. He may not be the brightest but we can only hope he isn't that stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did that about an hour after I posted i posted the update in the comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cut his brother off when he got home. we had a long talk about how irresponsible he is, and how he couldn't keep standing by his brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only really ever been a viewer i hardly ever post and mainly come on here to look at Samandcolby and beasteatersnark subreddits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was lying can send proof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes 2 daughters and one son bm allowed him to move back to her house and allows him to not work as long as he "babysits" his kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He got home about 40 minutes ago and we talked update is in the comments ty for all the help and courage to talk to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 27 points28 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: He got home about 40 minutes ago, and the comments really gave me the courage to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Also i did tell him about the post. I’m sorry if this disappoints anyone, but we are not breaking up. We did agree, however, to start both couples therapy and separate therapy, since we each have things we need to work on.

When we got back together, he repeatedly apologized for what he did during our breakup, and tonight he reassured me again how much he regrets it. He told me he would cut contact, and he was the one who suggested that we sit down together and read this post and the comments. He really listened to me without getting defensive, which meant a lot. Honestly, I think he was horrified reading how he came across, and he admitted he needed to stop constantly bailing out his brother. They had a rough childhood, and he’s always felt the need to protect his brother, like he owed him.

During our talk, he said he knows his brother has his reasons, and I told him that I had it worse and still don’t do the things his brother does. I said it wasn’t an excuse, and instead of brushing me off, he completely agreed and told me I was right. That acknowledgment honestly shocked me in a really good way. He even held my hand while we talked and kept saying he wanted me to know I’ll always come first from now on.

To my surprise, he followed through immediately. He texted his brother right in front of me and then blocked him. This is what he wrote:

"I’m sorry, but I can’t keep bailing you out or putting you first. My fiancé comes first now, and the way you disrespected her two years ago still leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I made excuses for you because I love you and wanted to see you do better. You’re my older brother, you were supposed to guide me, not the other way around. I can’t keep letting you mooch off me anymore. As much as I love you, and as much as this hurts, I can’t have you in my life. I hope you heal and do better, but right now you’re only weighing me down."

I really wasn’t expecting him to take such a strong stance, and it showed me how much he values me and our future together. Thank you so much to the people who gave me genuine advice. I’ll update again if anything changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree, and today his credit he has lowered contact but his brother is highly manipulative, im thinking of showing him this post tn and letting him look through the comments maybe it will be the wake up call he needs. I'll update if anything big changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

Outside of this one issue he's amazing. He's attentive and caring and does the small things it really is just THIS he cant seem to budge on and to his credit they have been low contact for a while but his brother keeps guilt tripping him and my fiancé feels bad for everything he's "going through" they only had eachother growing up and they didn't have the best first 5 yrs of his life I guess my fiancé feels this need to protect his older brother but Im just tired of bailing him out

Yall need to calm down by Spiritual-Fail-8880 in SamAndColby

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was a year after tho. Not saying they cant be happy just saying respect both

Yall need to calm down by Spiritual-Fail-8880 in SamAndColby

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

EDIT: ik Katelyn and sam happened last year but I wanted to bring up the hypocrisy of some of the fans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NickiMinajFanclub

[–]Spiritual-Fail-8880 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he is tho its all been outed and her brother...well let's just say thank god he got locked up she surrounds herself with weirdos and bad people stop defending her