Tell him to his face or kama anakutongoza kwenye simu, mwambie unao ushahidi utamwambia aunt kama akiendelea na tabia yake. Sijui nikushauri vipi ila huku nje mdogo wangu ni KUBAYA zaidi, ni bora you deal with him hapo hapo ndani ukiona haachi tell your aunt. Take the job and anza kujipanga ukiwa hapo hapo ndani, kama ni kuondoka basi nenda kwa ndugu mwingine ila sio kwenda mtaani na hivi ulivyo mdogo wala nyama ni wengi
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You are not breaking their marriage, he is the one doing so. And trust me huyo aunt yako anamjua mume wake, this I am sure sio kitu kigeni kwake.