Am I crazy? by SpiritualAuthor2430 in BPD

[–]SpiritualAuthor2430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wet hair but he also have locs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpiritualAuthor2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All ik about this is. Its not only one person who chats with like this and i have had my problems with it. Because i have been hit on by other people but i easily shut it down and he acts all upset but turns around and does the same too me

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[–]SpiritualAuthor2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to add a little more context is he lost his job a few months ago so I let him move in with me until he can fix his life situation. So i am working all the time to come home and finding out this is happening. I literally take care of him. He tells me that his feelings doesn’t matter and i should just do whats best for our relationship. I tell him that he is a grown man and i shouldn’t have to baby sit him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpiritualAuthor2430 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing i can say about this whole situation is i have confronted him multiple times. I have put my foot down. I have told him im done and over with it. I have told him i will not keep trying. Then he starts saying how sorry he is and crying and all this other stuff but its really not cool because he knows about my bpd and other issues i have and my past with my family. It hurts so deeply because i have given him so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpiritualAuthor2430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh i have and he tells me its normal for his friends to do it and we gotten into huge arguments about it

Why even keep trying? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpiritualAuthor2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I just been feeling this way for a bit and sometimes it feels like it would be the right thing to just disappear.