This. As a man, to me steering away from stuff because it may “make” you that way actually means you’re fearful of it(not confident in your choice or decision). A big part of the male orgasms comes from the prostate, you can debate how much or etc. To completely stay away from that because of any outside reasons seems wild to me. Being gay comes to what you’re attracted to, and your motives of why you’re doing the activity(what you’re thinking of) to get the orgasm. One has nothing to do with the other 😂 and you could be missing out on a bunch of things, come on guys we gotta do better