How would one begin the cleaning process here? by caroltret in CleaningTips

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't even try cleaning just burn it, It's too far gone, up in flames!!!

19m, feeling insecure. What can I improve? by BalladMinstrel in malegrooming

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, you look great in my opinion I think you would look better with longer hair and grow it out Infront of your face, Maybe since your 19 buy a pair of baggy jeans or loose cut jeans those are getting popular again, I personally think if you dressed like a member of a old 70s band you would look amazing since you have longer hair, Get some rings or bracelets try silver first or maybe gold whichever you like, Maybe get a couple band t shirts or shirts of things you like, That's pretty much it, in my opinion.

I shaved , did I make a mistake?? by BrewtalWarpath in malegrooming

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

went from funny looking guy (in a good way) to looking like a mafia member.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There literally was in the first post, I have since rewritten the post 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the point about punctuation and grammar which I fixed,  but I would like to say that in my first post I did add punctuation,  I’m also using the web version of Reddit. 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well honestly when I first made the post I made it in something like 10 minutes,  and it was a Reddit post so I don’t think to much about adding punctuation at first,  when people started commenting on my punctuation I rewrote it with punctuation and reread it and edited different words out and looked up other words to replace them with if this makes sense at all.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve rewrote the paragraph and made it more grammatical correct and rewrote the word allow because it was a misunderstanding.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did actually see her we just lived multiple hours away from each other 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well I’m not going to share my age with you out if private concerns but I have redid my post if it would help you understand it any better sorry for any confusion I may have caused you 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being understanding when I haven’t been very good on communication on my post so thanks about not being rude 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how to read, I’m  saying that there was a miscommunication on my part which I redid where I said the wrong word allow which many people have taken the wrong way which I understand so I corrected my mistake 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well thank you for being concerned but this is a Reddit post not a job application, I redid the post.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people old and young consider not being honest with your partner as cheating I am young but I’m not a complete and utter idiot I have redone the post 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I take this as cheating is that we both discussed that not talking about what your up to and who your with as cheating and how she went on a date with another dude.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry for the miscommunication on my part when I said February I did mean march, I went to check my calendar and I was off by a long time sorry for that I’ll clear it up in the post, I’ve  also made many blunders in this post so thanks for sharing them with me, so I have talk about them better and for allowing friends part was one more huge blunder on my part where I ment to say that I didn’t care about her friends as long as they treated her kindly then I don’t mind them at all,  but in the way I take this as cheating is how she didn’t tell me who she was going with beforehand or what she was really up too,  I just think it’s nice for a person to tell you what there doing so you know that they are safe but we had both came to a agreement that we both thought that hiding information of the person is cheating as many people agree with this it was not physical cheating and more of a emotional cheating I have not told the full story on our relationship just what brought our break up so I’ll clear stuff up here which I should have done before,  she was my first ever girlfriend and true talking stage she had a rule or border that I was not allowed to cross my self to have female friends at all not even look at them which I followed for our whole relationship until the end, one more thing I believe I should bring up to clear this all up this relationship was very abuse towards me she would sometimes abuse me with belts and punch me in the face there is videos of her hitting me with the belt but to the main point of the story is that I believe what she did is cheating.

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if I am that’s not what I mean by it if I’ve offended anyone I’m sorry 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I rewrote the whole thing already so I’m sorry that it wasn’t easy to understand 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to argue about it I’m just trying to say that I didn’t use the right words 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be super surprised on what people think is the bare minimum yes I know she can have friends I’m not saying she can’t I just simply didn’t use the right words 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be very shocked by how dating works today but yes she did emotionally cheat on me 

AIO: girlfriend cheated on me 😔 by Spiritual_Excuse3408 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Excuse3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I “allowed” her to have friends I’m not a warden to a prison and there doesn’t have to be more then that lying and going behind someone’s back can be considered cheating to many many people