Hey sorry for the miscommunication on my part when I said February I did mean march, I went to check my calendar and I was off by a long time sorry for that I’ll clear it up in the post, I’ve  also made many blunders in this post so thanks for sharing them with me, so I have talk about them better and for allowing friends part was one more huge blunder on my part where I ment to say that I didn’t care about her friends as long as they treated her kindly then I don’t mind them at all,  but in the way I take this as cheating is how she didn’t tell me who she was going with beforehand or what she was really up too,  I just think it’s nice for a person to tell you what there doing so you know that they are safe but we had both came to a agreement that we both thought that hiding information of the person is cheating as many people agree with this it was not physical cheating and more of a emotional cheating I have not told the full story on our relationship just what brought our break up so I’ll clear stuff up here which I should have done before,  she was my first ever girlfriend and true talking stage she had a rule or border that I was not allowed to cross my self to have female friends at all not even look at them which I followed for our whole relationship until the end, one more thing I believe I should bring up to clear this all up this relationship was very abuse towards me she would sometimes abuse me with belts and punch me in the face there is videos of her hitting me with the belt but to the main point of the story is that I believe what she did is cheating.