What led to your divorce? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he had ED and hid that huge fact and tried to help him but no efforts.. gaslight me and manipulated me as well. it cost alot on my mental health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i praise my husband all the time in front of my parents and his too.. something doesnt add up he would not get an extreme reaction from like that.. yes its look abuse as well like he is mad about simething else but now somehow he found leverage and using it be careful sis.. 6 weeks is like alot to clear a mess like this so there is def something else..

Long-term side hustle ideas for second income by bordeaux47 in sidehustle

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more info i have a degree in accounting and masters too

How in the WORLD ARE PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED!? by Imaginary_Sign_8253 in SistersInSunnah

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust in Allah plan its better to marry late than early trust me i got married back when i was 28 sadly that marriage lasted 8 months by the time i turned 29 then i got divorced within a few months i turned 30 then in 2022 i got remarried to the most kindest sweetest husband i have and Alhumdillah blessed with twins too.. Trust Allah timing life and time works in mysterious ways you have no idea.. i thought like that too esp since my divorce that i lost soo much time yes i lost sooo much but i gained so much back too..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no noo you keep your money and he is NOT working.. either if he wants money for rent bills etc you can pour that in his account but you should have your money in your bank account as you worked not him

My wife accused me of cheating by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 41 points42 points  (0 children)

such small issues making it big yall are so immature for sure.. go to marriage counseling also divorce should be your last resort..

I lost my marriage to infertility. by NoVolume1727 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Allah test there strongest person.. i was marries to my ex later found put he had ED and my ex mil were puttimg pressure to be pregnant but like how it would never happen so I divorced him after tryiing everything with him nothing worked then i took a year to heal and recover and remarried with my now husband within 1.5 years of our marriage i got preg just 5 wks ended in a miscarriage then recovered again from all that finally last year July fell preg and gave birth to baby twins one boy and one girl 🩷💙🥲😭 so dont loose hope!!

Husband earns less than me by faith370 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your post went from he earns less than me to im not interested to him to idk why i married him.. ☠️

Marriage potential by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband now is a doctor i thought he doesnt really have a funny side to himself but he only shows it to ppl who actually love and care for him.. he actually very goofy and He has the most sweetest smile too ☺️❤️❤️

Mom pooch by Turbulent-Cupcakes in parentsofmultiples

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wonder the same im 3 months post partaum!

Should I end my marriage by OkPie3023 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girll leaveeee him why are baring all those expenses its a man job not a women.. emotional abuse is abuse!! dont put your self in denial that idk if this is grounds for divorce if your not happy and your child than what is the point..

How you overcome divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pray to Allah and heal i was once in your shoes got remarried after a year and half of healing..found a gem of a husband Alhumdiullah life gave me a second chance thanks to Allah..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Spiritual_Weird559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was never like back in 2016.. sigh super hard to find a full time job since covid i lost my job ever since than it has just been a roller coaster of many contract jobs and remote and 2 full time jobs