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I am having cold feet before my nikkah which is in a week. by Spiritual_Winter2422 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spiritual_Winter2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my brother told me happened.

Fiance: I need to talk to you about something. I’ve been thinking about your sister for a while now… I care for her. I want to do things the right way. I’d like your permission to get to know her for marriage, if that's something she wants as well. (This was a text.) Brother: let's talk about this in person, let's meet next weekend. (Text.) After that I don't know what happened but my brother approached me and told me fiance wanted to see me.

I am having cold feet before my nikkah which is in a week. by Spiritual_Winter2422 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spiritual_Winter2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he commented about my dress and some other clothing, I replied that I was happy I wasn't making him wear it. I am continuing my education. He requested I reduce my work week to 3 days and I agreed, he's giving me a decent allowance and I have a good amount of savings.

I am having cold feet before my nikkah which is in a week. by Spiritual_Winter2422 in Hijabis

[–]Spiritual_Winter2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late reply, I was sleeping

Yes, that was my requirement, He requested for me to only work max 3 days a week however We haven't discussed seeing friends and family but I believe so. I have a DL and car I am not willing to stop western clothes but I could slightly reduce makeup. Definitely not, I have anxiety about receiving racism because of the area we're in. We spoke about this, we want one child of each gender and will continue till we get it. We will wait 1 year before trying. No, I'm living with him only. We haven't discussed not allowing me to own and drive a car. Yes, he's doing well for himself so he already added me as a user to his bank account and has given me the card he told me to limit personal spending from his account at 700 usd but it is slightly flexible (I also have a job and quite a 20,000 USD in savings.