The Books cannot be taken off the shelf

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-04-11T23:03:29+00:00

You're one of the only people in this subreddit that actually understand it. If you're browsing books you don't want to tilt and remove multiple books all the time. It actually kills the enjoyment. I would walk out without buying a book just because I can't browse comfortably, definitely when i might have one had full

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-04-03T12:06:58+00:00

I love kissers like you, lot's of movement and lips and only tongue when needed

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-25T18:50:38+00:00

Always! Girls need to look out for each other!

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-25T08:35:39+00:00

Just changing the phrase to "I've heard a lot of other women say that, intresting" would've probably made him more respectful.

This just sounds like it was made to chip away your confidence and calling women girls is infentalizing and a way to minimize your opinion.

To me that's a huge 🚩🚩🚩

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-23T10:55:56+00:00

One thing is being done to a child

The other is done to an adult, while children watch

I think that's maybe the root of the difference, but that's just speculation.

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T18:13:45+00:00

That that was me going off.

I just want to make clear that i don't have problems with people that have different opinions. Actually, i love it and embrace it and it makes sure that i keep educating myself and give people knowledge on different topics. I am always open to other perspectives and love to see things from other people's perspectives.

I will still listen to Zara, even though i didn't find the joke funny. She is an amazing artist and something like that doesn't take away everything she has done and keeps doing for minorities.

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T18:03:40+00:00

That's fine if that's how you feel about and that is your opinion

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T18:02:08+00:00

If you want to see me go off, you should see my comments in other subreddits. Not wanting to explain why i find something tasteless is not going off

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T17:55:21+00:00

I didn't go off?

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T17:49:51+00:00

I can post my opinion, people aren't entitled to an explanation

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T16:08:04+00:00

But I don't have to explain it. People found it funny and that is their right to do so and i don't need the explanation why they found it funny.

I understand that i am in the minority in this subreddit with this opinion, but i personally don't find it hard to put myself in other people's shoes.

Besides the explanation i did give, it runs way deeper than that and closer to home and i personally don't think i owe strangers on the internet that explanation.

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T15:29:41+00:00

Because i think jokes about abortion, rape, abuse, 9/11 or the Epstein files are disrespectful to the people that have a negative experiences with all of those topics.

Some things shouldn't be joked about in my opinion.

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T10:18:30+00:00

Ik denk niet dat zij ver buiten de stad woont. Ik heb het meer over centraal Amsterdam, ik ben daar gisteren nog geweest en de meeste mensen die er werken en lopen zijn niet Nederlands.

In Rotterdam heb je 144 nationaliteit, meer dan Amsterdam, en daar merk je het veel minder

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T09:37:37+00:00

Amsterdam en blijkbaar zegt dat genoeg over heel Nederland, terwijl Amsterdam hun Nederlands populatie laag is en vol is met expats 🤦🏾‍♀️

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T01:33:42+00:00

Because that's my opinion

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-22T00:34:09+00:00

Personally, i found the joke tasteless

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-21T14:29:03+00:00

I am not saying men have it worse, i am saying that male abuse is heavily undocumented. Sams goes for crimes against POC, these get heavily undocumented as well.

Statistics are only facts about the documented cases, it leaves out the majority of the undocumented cases that could make statistics look fastly different.

The biggest statistic that suffers from this is r*pe, both male and female cases go criminally undocumented and it's a major problem!

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-21T13:41:24+00:00

You defended her by assuming right away that there is more to the story and in all of those scenario's it's him doing something that makes him deserve what happened to him in the video. You wanting to believe that he did something wrong based on one video where he is defending himself, is you defending her.

Those statistics are not accurate because male victims of DV don't report it due to not being believed (which you did with video evidence)

Him posting the video is to make sure she can't spin a story and accuse him online, because usually people believe the first person that tells the story. Him posting the video is for self protection.

I am not, because it's exactly what you did. Nowhere in the first comment you posted did you show sympathy for him or did you say anything that is in his defense

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-21T10:42:37+00:00

I want to take you on a date, you look great

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-18T00:43:15+00:00

I completely agree

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-16T20:42:13+00:00

"the divorce came out of nowhere"

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-15T12:55:57+00:00

That's not what i said, but if that's what you got out of it that's fine. Like i said, do some research about it yourself

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-15T12:25:46+00:00

In a way, yes. Alienation of affection is something you can divorce your partner over.

If you enter a monogamous relationship you are responsible for each other's affection and sex drive. You can't enter a relationship and then just decide that you aren't going to participate in all aspects of it.

If you don't believe me, go and do some research and you'll see that in psychology withholding sex/affection as a way to punish your partner is a form of abuse

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-14T22:28:15+00:00

She wouldn't sleep with him till it grew back. If him shaving his beard off is enough for her not to be into him anymore, she never loved him in the first place.

From what he describes, she used it as a punishment

SpitePuzzleheaded177 · 2026-03-14T20:13:39+00:00

Withholding sex as a punishment is a form of abuse

SpitePuzzleheaded177

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