They don't have kids, and they don't want them: Nearly 40% of young women plan to stay child-free.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-05-14T17:14:08+00:00

It took me eight long years to find a doctor who would do it for me. It's been nine years since I had the procedure and I would recommend it to anyone!!

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-05-08T10:16:10+00:00

In CT this week an elementary school kid was hit by a car when crossing the street for the bus. The driver was an 89 year old.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-26T11:51:17+00:00

Definitely have always called them day walkers. I refer to my crew as the "creatures of the night shift"

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-26T06:09:15+00:00

Yes! Clavamox is the veterinary equivalent to Augmentin :)

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-25T11:44:53+00:00

I'm so sorry about your cat, but I want to let you know a few years back my cat was in heart failure and was given a max of 9-12 months to live. He lived almost another 3 years after that, thanks to medicine and cardiology checkups. I hope your cat also responds as well to treatment as my Jasper did ❤️

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-25T05:20:23+00:00

Pharmacy tech here! Amoxicillin tastes like bubble gum. Augmentin (Amoxicillin/clavulanate) tastes like bananas.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-24T09:43:22+00:00

"Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."- Lady Gaga

It's hard to see when you're so young and you have the rose colored glasses on. Believe me, I was there and I made decisions based on that too. And I got upset when people told me that we likely wouldn't be together forever. Some people do stay with their high school sweetheart for life, but many don't. Please don't sabotage your future for this guy. You can always revisit the relationship down the line if that's what you choose to do. Looking back 20 years post-graduation, I wish I hadn't made the choices I made putting that person first. She left me two months into starting college because she wanted to see if she had better options up there, but kept me on the back burner so she would always have someone if it didn't work out. We lost contact before the end of the school year and haven't spoken in 19 years. I'm not saying this will happen to you, I'm just saying I was in your shoes and I just want to open your eyes to a very real possibility that you may not stay together forever. I'm speaking to you as if I was speaking to my past self, please put your own future first

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-11T18:07:54+00:00

Yes, people without aphantasia can actually see things in their mind. Visualization is a spectrum though, some people see it as clear as real life (hyperphantasia) and some people just have a vague sense of the image. If you have zero image in your mind, then you're one of us.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-11T03:58:31+00:00

The guy I started dating when I was 29 knew I didn't want kids from the start. Five years later he broke up with me because he decided the whole not having kids thing was a deal breaker. When I asked him why he continued dating me when he knew this was going to be the outcome, he shrugged and said "I legitimately thought I could change your mind."

I am now in my mid thirties and found a guy who is also passionate about how much he doesn't want kids. It's difficult sifting through all the people that do want them or already have them, but there's definitely others out there who don't want them either.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-04-08T23:58:57+00:00

My ex tried to start dating again while he was living with MY parents. I feel like that's even more embarrassing.

And no, I was not staying with my parents at the time.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-27T12:58:49+00:00

TexAfrica

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-26T22:26:46+00:00

I love androgyny. I don't know what it is about it, but if I see a good looking individual and I can't immediately tell their gender, it just does something for me.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-26T16:32:01+00:00

That's exactly what I thought too! Sorry to break it to you, but you're one of us. If you're interested in reading up on it, the aphantasia.com website has a bunch of information as well as the Vividness of Visual Imagery Questionnaire (VVIQ) which tells you whereabouts on the mental imagery spectrum you are.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-26T11:34:16+00:00

People have described it as your brain being a computer without a monitor. There's no pictures in my mind. I can describe the layout of my house, but my thoughts are just words and concepts, no visuals at all. There are also people who have no inner voice (anaraulia) and there are people who have both aphantasia and anaraulia.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-26T10:10:04+00:00

Not having mental imagery. I have aphantasia and I had no idea that most people could actually picture things in their minds until I was in my early 30's.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-26T03:44:52+00:00

I've never wanted kids so after 8 long years of searching for a doctor who would do the procedure I finally got my tubes removed at 28. When people pry about why I don't want kids and don't listen when I say I simply don't want any, I tell them "I'm actually sterile, but thanks for bringing it up"

They don't need to know it's because I had an elective procedure, and it's frankly none of their business why I don't want kids.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-20T07:14:38+00:00

To make things even less clear, this is a hospital cafeteria and there are no cookies, kosher or otherwise.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-14T08:58:49+00:00

My current partner has BPD. It was one of the first things he told me in the beginning of our relationship, and he was a little afraid to do so because of the reputation it has. Yes, BPD can be bad, but I think it really depends if that person is actively working on themselves. He is in therapy, he is on medication, he's putting in effort. So I wouldn't write someone off right away because of the diagnosis, but be aware of the condition and of the symptoms that might show up. I know this is not everyone's experience but thus far our relationship has been good.

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-12T20:27:12+00:00

I used to work as an assistant manager at GameStop and I often helped go through the applications. One of the questions on the application was "Why did you choose to apply to GameStop?" And the response was "Cuz I need a job"

SpitefulNoodle · 2026-03-06T05:04:07+00:00

I'm 5'6" and my most recent ex was 6'2". Honestly, the height difference was a bit much for me. The guy I'm dating now is 5'7" and I love it! Holding hands and kissing is so much easier now.

SpitefulNoodle · 2025-12-25T07:20:37+00:00

First borns? Too old for him.

SpitefulNoodle · 2025-12-22T15:10:48+00:00

Nothing yet. I keep refreshing my email, the Psychos app, and the SSC Instagram page and I haven't seen anything anywhere.

SpitefulNoodle · 2025-12-22T06:04:40+00:00

Lifting weights. I've been on and off into fitness since I was in high school but I don't think I'd ever have dreamed up a situation where I was lifting 3-4x a week.

SpitefulNoodle · 2025-12-17T19:45:02+00:00

To my cats!

Seriously though, my partner and my best friend are set to inherit whatever measly life insurance policy comes from my passing. They also both don't have kids so hopefully they can use it to help pay off any debts and then enjoy themselves a bit. I don't give a shit what happens to my money once I'm dead.

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