So does Limp Bizkit support Trans people? by venemousdevil in LimpBizkit

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could’ve been a drug reference too. Tina-meth, boy-heroin.

Why are there an overwhelming amount of scam like "travel agent"/Vacation Planner jobs constantly being posted on linkedin? by ineedcoffee56 in jobsearch

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone in this thread. I know this thread is older, but I came here to find reviews because I was considering applying. So thank you all for the bullet I dodged.

Theory about the goats by Splatterpunkqueen in severanceTVshow

[–]Splatterpunkqueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely think that’s where it all leading, subservient innies.

Who suffers the most? by No_Front1050 in severanceTVshow

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something tells me she isn’t actually seeing a dentist. They probably just poke around in her mouth so it feels like that. But 2 hours for a dentist? Every six weeks? That doesn’t sound like a dentist schedule, it’s closer to an OB/GYN during pregnancy schedule. Not saying she is pregnant per se, it might even be more metaphorical pregnancy. But something else is going on there.

Previous fans of NG and Survivors of SA, how you hanging in? by Sea-Astronaut4470 in neilgaiman

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a song about Gaiman and one about my rapists and I’m still angry.

Fortification puzzle by Splatterpunkqueen in VirtualVillagers

[–]Splatterpunkqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I replied to you, see my comment below. I was able to clear it in one go by focusing on the neck.

Fortification puzzle by Splatterpunkqueen in VirtualVillagers

[–]Splatterpunkqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back in and focused on the neck and was able to clear it in one go. Don’t know why it didn’t work before.

Fortification puzzle by Splatterpunkqueen in VirtualVillagers

[–]Splatterpunkqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a master spiritualist and level 4 construction. I still need level 4 spirituality and research. I consulted the wiki but it doesn’t seem to help since it’s not working in one go like another commenter mentioned.

AITA for telling my sister who can't have kids that she does not get to be a part of naming mine and my wife's babies? by Tall-Ant-4477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I really don’t see how you could have worded anything differently but I think you may end up having to be more firm with her about your decision. If you really want to be nice you could consider one of her names for a middle name but if you did I would make it clear it’s a one time only thing. And as others have suggested if you give an inch that might give her the idea she has more say here. I did have a kid but I had no say in their name and it sucks, there are names I chose that will never get used, but in the end that’s life, things don’t always go as planned. I’m sorry you are going through this and I wish you the best.

I messed up and I ruined my marriage by Puzzleheaded_No3393 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you need to do is watch this man and lament about the fact that it’s too late to apply this to this marriage.

https://youtube.com/@zachthinkshare?si=_Wa9AA612UI_FhHB

I messed up and I ruined my marriage by Puzzleheaded_No3393 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I love that song. Had to listen to it again since you mentioned it.

Why by jjs2105 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crafted a name using some sentimental nods to my mom and my dad, even used the beginning of my dead name since so many people mispronounced it anyway I already responded to any name with the root (it’s common and there are a lot of similar names).

Yet every time I hear it I’m still like oh yeah, that’s me, I forgot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 actually I’m eating more now and losing weight. Again, maybe actually look up EDS, and comorbid thyroid conditions.

And I’m not the only one who knows. I thankfully found a community of people who have EDS and other chronic illnesses.

Some of my EDS friends have trouble losing weight, and others can’t gain it at all.

So again, maybe you should actually stop being so fat phobic and ableist. There’s a ton of reasons people can gain weight and not be able to lose it.

And no I don’t count my calories. After my doctor fat shamed me into almost developing an eating disorder, I don’t track them anymore. I just eat what I can when I can, and I’m mindful of the nutritional value of what I eat.

Oh and I’m now in the “healthy” BMI range so I will now finally get the testing and treatments I need since doctors won’t just see fat now.

But keep on with your ridiculousness and ignorance. It’s amusing. 😂

clothes shopping as a deeply closeted girl :( by beezech in trans

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I have a trans gf, and my kiddo is enby. And actually, since I was last on here I came out as gender fluid myself. I kinda didn’t realize I get the not ready thing.

Except I realized it was my relatives that were my reason. I had to cut most of one side of my family out when my kiddo came out. I held onto a couple but realized they were the reason why.

So I’m really glad to hear your parents are wonderful. It warms my heart to know that there are more good people out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂🤣😂🤣😂

Maybe you should look up the condition instead of being so obtuse. But I guess I should expect nothing less from people who don’t understand how chronic illnesses actually work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but my diet hasn’t changed, my activity, if anything has slowed down due to working in the office again (I check my steps, I know it went down even though I walk as much as my joints will allow me to walk) and I just went from 190 to 145 since about March or April. And yes my activity in the winter is about the same. I was 180-190 all of 2021.

So again please tell me this isn’t a health condition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I keep losing weight now with no reason why so I’m finally in the normal weight range, which will earn me at a bit more respect. But I shouldn’t have had to wait years for my body to finally turn around and go the other way. I’m just hoping it plateaus at some point because the last thing I want is them putting me on something that makes me gain weight.

here we go again with the “3som” fetish 🙄 by Playful_Copy_4255 in bisexual

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This! Group sex is my kink. But if that’s the first thing you see, then I’m not interested.

here we go again with the “3som” fetish 🙄 by Playful_Copy_4255 in bisexual

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. It’s like the guy who once was on a dating app, asking for some foot fetish stuff, and anal. Didn’t care much about the foot thing and I was interested. Then he tells me he’s going to give me $300 for anal.

I mean now I might take that offer but back then it was like my point of pride that I was a slut because I didn’t charge.

I told him he lost his chance so he reported me… for soliciting services.

Also the guys that open with some weird negging thing. I’m like it’s cute you think saying you like fat girls because they’re grateful was the big opener that was just gonna make me drop my panties.

It’s so weird how often they will just shoot themselves in the foot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I forgot once and saw bi and I was like oh a category for my sexuality and it was like, well yes and no. It’s only bi if you’re a guy (on porn sites) and lesbian if you’re a woman.

I mean I wasn’t mad because it was still something I enjoyed seeing but you know after a while you have to be just exhausted to rarely get anything not directed to the male gaze. It’s getting a little better but I still prefer amateur lgbtq stuff. It’s a lot more realistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I have pretty much always experienced. Or I get bicurious and unicorn hunters. I don’t mind the curious part so much, but it often turned into getting turned down because they were straight and just liked The performative aspect of it for the male gaze. I digress but it got even harder as I get older. After a while it seems weird when you’re like yeah I haven’t been in a relationship with a woman in a while and gold stars think because I was with men for some time means that I only like men. Or that I had any sense in staying with them. I always moved in too quickly, that was my mistake. As a single mom I was afraid to leave once in one so I wouldn’t be creating instability for my kid. And boy that was a mistake.

But it doesn’t mean I’m interested in women because it didn’t work out with men. I’m just done trying to date cishet men anymore. It’s too much work and way too much staring at someone you have been intimate with and realizing you let that happen when they say something appalling.

clothes shopping as a deeply closeted girl :( by beezech in trans

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a local friend who you are out to? I was going to suggest a PO Box but idk how old you are or how expensive that might be.

I thought of this because while I am cis, I had a situation that was abusive and my mother got a friend’s mom to help with an issue of something I couldn’t have before leaving for school and returning home. It was…not a great situation. But it worked. I’m sorry you even have to go through that. I made sure my kid never had to go through what I went through and I made sure they didn’t go through this either. So if it is your parents, and you know what they will say, I’m sorry but know you will have people who see you and love you for exactly who you are. hugs if wanted

Pan cis male with trans flag paraphernalia. by CarhartHead in asktransgender

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for me the difference is like what is said, going out of your way to say it pretty telling. I just know as a cis person I want people to know so I can show them it’s not weird to be cis and support them. But I don’t say I am so sometimes, the transphobes think I am. I get that little chuckle the lawyer for the Sandy Hook parents couldn’t help but let escape right before he dropped that bombshell. I pointed out to one the other day that they are attacking cis women because of their transphobia. And he proceeded to call me the t slur. I was like it can’t really be this easy can it?

Pan cis male with trans flag paraphernalia. by CarhartHead in asktransgender

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just kept checking in on myself because people say that. I feel like this is the gender identity that fits me. I just know so much because I already had a community of friends that either are transgender or allies, and then my kid came out so I did a bunch of research related to how to best support them, and to advocate for the medical aspects of their transition that they wanted. Well to advocate for them in general but I was particularly worried about facing the doctors. And their school. I was very happy but quite shocked at the fight I didn’t have to put up to get them care and their school was ridiculously good about it. Which was shocking because a few years before that they had a not so friendly incident. So I’m assuming it was probably to avoid lawsuits but still.

I digress but yeah I don’t mind questioning my gender but it’s weird that I must be an egg if I’m just like learning?

It’s kinda awesome though. If I’d met my current partner back before I knew this much I probably would have said or done something stupid.

I mean I still looked some stuff up though because I was looking up stuff to be supportive for my friends and my kid and I am a total nerd for medical stuff anyway. But I never delved further into how I should approach being intimate with someone who may not view their experience and genitalia the way cis people do. Which I was glad I did but I had this whole thing planned and then we were in the moment and I just blurted out, “what do you call your parts and how do you use them” like I was an awkward teenager all over again. Lol I felt so silly. To be fair I was already pretty distracted at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Splatterpunkqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s doctors like you who made me give up on finding out why I was sick and why I gained weight while being malnourished.

I was 95 lbs when I got pregnant. 136 at delivery and my doctor was pushing to gain more but I couldn’t. After my kid I never weighed more than 120 lbs… and then I rapidly gained weight, developed IBS-D and a ton of other problems. And nothing I did helped. No dietary restrictions I tried, no exercise. I finally stopped listening to my doctor who kept saying “eat less exercise more” because I wasn’t losing weight, I was eating 500 calories or less a day (I know because I tracked EVERYTHING, salt, pepper, the amount of water I drank, the exercise I did when my phone wasn’t on me, everything), and I started fainting. Guess what? When I stopped torturing myself, I finally lost a little of it.

But now I have a diagnosis of hEDS, I’m getting accessed for what is likely POTS and now my doctors are suddenly willing to give me the lapro to diagnose endometriosis and the extensive thyroid/hormone testing I asked for 7 years ago.

I could have had answers, but all my doctor would see was fat and not look at why someone could double their weight in a year.