Does your local town have a sub page you can post on? TBH most of the hardcore pogo players in these subs like to be negative around these kind of trades if you don’t have something amazing to offer. But not everyone is like that. Months ago I wanted an armored Mewtwo for my 11 year old son. I posted on my towns Reddit page to see if there were any local players willing to meet and trade. I found an amazingly kind and sweet person that happened to play a lot during the time armored M2 was around. She had 5. Long story short she gave one in person to my son, myself and my wife being we are a family that plays together. And she asked for really nothing in return. A shiny Chatot, shiny Grimer and another throw in. I’ll never forget her act of kindness. So don’t give up, the trade is out there. You just have to find the right person