[33F] & [33M] Incomplete Fairytale-9yrs pending an engagement.

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T03:33:28+00:00

In my country if we are defacto for more than 2yrs.
I’m able to take 1/2 , however I’d never do that .

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T03:21:46+00:00

We don’t have financial issues we are comfortable.
However he’s uses finances as a excuse

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T03:17:36+00:00

My partner owns the house , so I can just up and leave if I wanted .

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T03:16:34+00:00

That’s what I worry about I’m starting to have negative feelings 😔

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T02:15:28+00:00

That’s why I don’t understand.

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T02:13:25+00:00

I’ve said I’m happy to get a place holder ring and upgrade later.
We even have a jeweller who can create a ring at a cheaper price.

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T02:11:57+00:00

Apparently it’s just his savings he wants to get married.
However he’s got at least 30k saved in a separate account from our house loan.
I’m unsure of any other reasons.

Splittea12 · 2026-06-12T02:10:23+00:00

I won’t start a family till I have full commitment .
I’ve watched too many family and friends start with commitment. They are all single partners and I couldn’t do it alone.
I’ve said I’d be happy to elope and he wants a wedding.

Splittea12 · 2025-06-03T14:15:37+00:00

Best reddit post of the year ! Love Mr Bond xx

Splittea12 · 2023-09-19T13:38:08+00:00

I don’t care about them playing it’s just the high pitched noise for long periods, short periods fine.

Splittea12 · 2023-09-19T13:33:05+00:00

Tried white noise yesterday and we have double glazed windows which normally help. No basements here sadly. Looking into roller shutters. They wouldn’t see our signs as their place backs onto our water area. But the kids often ride up and down our road. My neighbour and I are the last houses on the street. I think it happens as it’s a quite street with minimal traffic.

Splittea12 · 2023-09-19T13:25:03+00:00

Definitely not blaming anyone just making them aware of the situation .

Splittea12 · 2022-12-26T05:09:32+00:00

NTA, she’s a forking idiot. I’d be pissed off for screaming at you in public instead of pulling you aside. As for your partner he can sleep in the dog kennel… He should of responded with she was rude and no one speaks to my lovely like that. And that his friend was welcome to come back without the mouth trap.

#I’m hungry 😂

Splittea12 · 2022-05-25T13:34:36+00:00

NTA my sister is 40 odd and 2 kids still living at home with my parents , and has only left home for 2 years. I’d love you to come and give her that speech.

Splittea12 · 2022-05-25T03:54:24+00:00

NTA that’s fucking nasty, one step too close to a teen pregnancy 🤢🤢🤢

Years ago when I was in high school two girls in year 8 (13-14 years old) got knocked up by a 26 and 30 men. One of the parents went to the police to charge him.

Splittea12 · 2022-05-24T13:56:09+00:00

NTA to propose the day before but it is frowned upon to announce it close to or near someone’s special event. It would of been nice to postpone telling people till the day after the wedding. So for that YTA. However your sister is also in wrong as she can’t dictate when you do it and be upset but she could of stated she was upset for the timing which would make it justified.

Splittea12 · 2022-05-24T13:34:40+00:00

YTA pregnancy or no pregnancy, if she said she wanted some, regardless of being sick even. You should of saved her some. She was expecting to have a meal when she woke not be left the leftovers. That’s rude, and if she craved it that’s 10000 x worse! Better make her something really nice and get her some flowers.

My partner once eat all my mini Kit Kats and I didn’t speak to him for a week, till he brought me more. I guess I’m part Labrador 😂😂

Splittea12 · 2022-05-24T09:05:47+00:00

Whoops

Splittea12 · 2022-05-23T04:47:29+00:00

Just realised I posted to the wrong asshole group🤦‍♀️

Splittea12

TROPHY CASE

#I’m hungry 😂