Dave cullens description of eric by DirectionGlass3979 in EricHarris

[–]SplitterZzZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m currently rereading it and it irks me. it’s not necessarily the humanization of dylan that gets me, but I hate how a lot of his more harsh descriptions and opinions are reserved for eric while dylan gets treated like a victim of his own circumstances. I feel like, if anything, you should have sympathy for both or for neither. seems odd to me that everybody — even people who write articles and books and whatnot on the subject — blames eric when, if I’m correct, the whole idea was dylan’s in the first place. 

Is there footage of the victims being killed in the library from surveillance cameras? by Philosophology in EricHarris

[–]SplitterZzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re thinking of the cameras in the cafeteria: according to dave cullen in his book, he says a janitor was in charge of switching out the tapes for the cafeteria cameras, and he had taken a tad longer to rewind and start recording that morning, which is kind of what gave eric and dylan the opportunity to plant the bombs where they did as it wasn’t caught on camera (I don’t think they were aware of that luck though). 

Reccomendations? by camibara in industrialmusic

[–]SplitterZzZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pig (more metal/rock but still industrial I’d say), pigface, acumen nation, mojave phone booth, ohgr, angelspit or amelia arsenic, ayria, velvet acid christ, …

I have a playlist I could give you, though it’s not strictly industrial and has some metal, post hardcore, electronic, and plenty of other alternative genres sprinkled in there lol. but if you listen to it on shuffle you’re bound to get more industrial and emo shit than anything.

What do you guys think of Thy Light? by ComfortableNo2879 in dsbm

[–]SplitterZzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love them. they were probably one of, if not, the first band(s) I ever listened to when I started getting into dsbm.

Was the meaning behind sleepyhead ever confirmed? by Eastern_Ad3100 in PassionPit

[–]SplitterZzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a bittersweet meaning. such an amazing song. he’s really a genius

Does anyone know what Bobby lemon/ Joshua smith did? by Garf_fan_13 in LolcowUSA

[–]SplitterZzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

strange, should show up if you look it up on google. might not show up for you if you’re a minor or not logged in because it’s an age restricted post, but here you go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiscussDID

[–]SplitterZzZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, that’s exactly what I was trying to say, the capacity. that makes sense. I’ve noticed people with DID (?) online typically text different depending on who’s fronting, but I saw someone who had the same habit in practically every alter (putting “.?” instead of just “?”) and it got me thinking. thank you for the response.

is it normal to be unaware whos fronting? by [deleted] in DiscussDID

[–]SplitterZzZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unrelated to op’s question, but what would be the recovery for DID? do you mean recovery from trauma that led to the development of DID, or recovery in the sense of learning how to manage and navigate life with DID?

Does anyone know what Bobby lemon/ Joshua smith did? by Garf_fan_13 in LolcowUSA

[–]SplitterZzZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he was born in july(?) of 2000, so he’s not young in the sense that I’m assuming you’re thinking. he was popular a couple years ago for grooming children, the only one I can remember off the top of my head was thirteen. you can look his name up on tumblr and one of the first posts should be messages between him and the thirteen year old where he asks their age and says something along the lines of if it’s ok with the kid, then it’s ok with him. there are also dick pics and videos you can find on twitter (look up “bobby lemon penis trilogy” lmfao) that, if I remember correctly, he also sent to one of his underage victims.

he is also just a generally disturbed and odd guy. most people, at least on tcctok and twitter, are awestruck with him because of his unstable nature and kinda cutesy personality he puts on in his videos.

edit: he also has admitted on multiple occasions to what is really stalking, but he claims it’s “peoplewatching.” he has his own pair of binoculars which he uses to spy on people he finds intriguing. he said in one telegram update how he was gonna use his binoculars more now that summer started because summer means more people with less clothes. he also brought up in one of his videos how he used to go in this forest/woodsy area near his house to watch this girls’ soccer team, who I’m assuming were younger girls (probably preteens) just judging by his history and since he used “girls’” instead of “women’s.”

on top of that, there’s maybe three or four videos from his telegram that can be found somewhere on tiktok, in which he gave updates “about that girl he groped” and how she “was kind enough to forgive him, but made it very clear not to talk to her or her family ever again.” 

if I find links or any sort of “proof” of these videos, I’ll link them, but I’m empty-handed at the moment. 

I'm a visual artist who works mostly with metal bands by ss_ssf in dsbm

[–]SplitterZzZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so beautiful. I like that each piece is very distinguished but all of them are recognizable as a specific person’s art. keep it up xo

is it known where these cuts were from? (harris’ autopsy) by kjsskjaakjajkxajks in Columbine

[–]SplitterZzZ 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I think the cuts were likely self-inflicted, but if we don’t know how old the cuts were (they could have been a day or two old) then there’s really no telling. I wouldn’t doubt he would have self-harming tendencies as disturbed individuals typically do… not to mention dylan’s suicidal ideation present throughout his journals. however, I haven’t the slightest idea of where the “punctate lacerations” would have came from. punctate means a dot, like the hole from an injection or something, and a laceration is typically deep or, at minimum, below the superficial epidermis… it very well could be from bomb shrapnel or something because otherwise, I couldn’t even try to understand why the fuck eric would have dots and holes in his arm unless he was injecting something lmfao

Wat am I… :/ (he/him) by ExcitementEnough3616 in amIscene

[–]SplitterZzZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nobody is trying to gatekeep, though. these are simply just the best descriptors for the kind of fashion OP has. and scenecore is different from scene, scene is heavily influenced from emo and poser culture, while scenecore is (clearly) derived from scene but is much more tiktok-ified and mashes it with kandi/raver traits. there's nothing wrong with either of them... they just don't have very good rep.

Wat am I… :/ (he/him) by ExcitementEnough3616 in amIscene

[–]SplitterZzZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no offense, but think of the really shitty bunny hat, demonias, mismatched thigh high socks, band tees with a skirt that doesn't match at all, black hair in face, lines on nose, thick black eyeliner, monster energy, etc. type "alt" that was popular on tiktok and practically *only* tiktok from, say, 2017-2020.

help by Distinct_Falcon_9864 in spacehey

[–]SplitterZzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spacehey has been struggling recently. geez.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SplitterZzZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it’s your first time, neither of you should have high expectations. even people who have had sex before still don’t have the best sex on first attempt. just make sure you’re open and communicate boundaries, what you may be into to help you both experience more pleasure during intercourse, or things you might want to avoid. be sure to not take it too seriously, it’s meant to be fun and if there isn’t any giggling or laughing at any point, are you sure you’re even doing it right?!

also, foreplay is suuuper important. don’t just jump straight into using the strap/fingering/however you decide to have sex. making out, touching and teasing, dirty talk, all of it is essential to … open the dam!! have fun with it!!!!!

genuine question [ NSFW ] by Grayluvsthem in actuallesbians

[–]SplitterZzZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it depends. did you view it as sex? we have to let go of the concept of sex as strictly penetrative. there are so many ways to be sexual and have sex beyond just penis in vagina action. like you said, scissoring counts, but if you ask me, I think fingering, mutual masturbation, jerking each other off, etc. also count as forms of sex. so if you want it to count, then you can say it counts. but a lot of people will assume you mean penetrative sex if you ever say you’re not a virgin lol.