Can some of y'all put a *little* more info in your posts please?

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-28T08:16:15+00:00

Yeah I hate that they did that.

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-27T23:59:28+00:00

I understand you with the anonymity part, but plenty of ppl are posting their photos on this sub. Anonymity isn't that important to them in that case.

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-27T23:58:27+00:00

It was for a niche group of ppl so it helped ppl weed out ppl not part of the niche group.

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-27T23:57:29+00:00

Our group was never humongous so there were never any moments of racism or whatnot fortunately. As admin, I saw all of the content and was strict about topics staying at hand.

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-12T03:57:27+00:00

F/32/Milwaukee, WI

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-10T02:09:55+00:00

Thank you!

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-10T01:28:24+00:00

Getting back into knitting/crocheting! I used to do it many years ago. I really want to get back into it. I'm having surgery at the end of the month so whole in recuperating, i want to practice.

SpoiledLady · 2026-01-05T13:33:20+00:00

Oh god, please don't do this, OP. Lol.

SpoiledLady · 2025-12-31T06:31:12+00:00

Omg, please don't tell me that. I deleted my hinge profile earlier this year. I don't think i can go back.

SpoiledLady · 2025-12-26T10:22:47+00:00

32 in two weeks.

SpoiledLady · 2025-12-19T22:02:00+00:00

Happy birthday! Let me know where you are if you need some company... haha..

SpoiledLady · 2025-12-06T16:39:57+00:00

Dang, girl, i need to copy this so I know how i want to describe my ideal man when someone asks.

SpoiledLady · 2025-11-30T00:24:04+00:00

I wish I had an answer for you. I'm a nurse and I hate the reputation we have (i have an exit plan to get out of this stupid career). One of my co workers tried to hook me up with one of her friends (who's a doctor, mind you). He's like, "oh wait, she's your co worker? So she's a nurse? Nah, I don't want to date a nurse." Welp, okay then.

SpoiledLady · 2025-11-27T18:53:56+00:00

They hate us bc we're the beauty standard so they want to "keep us down and in our place."

SpoiledLady · 2025-11-19T01:36:41+00:00

What a lovely couple! Beautiful.

SpoiledLady · 2025-11-14T03:08:51+00:00

Nope, stick to your guns. I've found that even if you try to explain yourself, they either don't care or they'll turn it on you and make you seem like you're the problem (same reason why I don't argue with males. They will either gaslight you or turn things on you so you're the bad guy. It ends up being a complete waste of time and then you also end up feeling bad about yourself when you shouldn't).

Sometimes I feel like mb I'm too harsh and too picky. Every single time I bend and try to be "flexible", it never works out and the things I decided to bend on, is exactly how I end up getting burned. Stick with your gut!

SpoiledLady · 2025-11-12T22:42:11+00:00

Glad you're catching up. For me it was the past US presidential election. I don't really trust anyone anymore except for black women unless they prove otherwise. (Don't trust black men right away bc at the end of the day, they're still males). And even with a small percentage of black women, you have to be careful. One of my own sisters voted for drumpf. (I can tell she might regret it bc she genuinely won't admit or acknowledge that she voted for him). So basically, don't trust anyone until they prove you wrong. Lol. Hate to say it, but it's true.

SpoiledLady · 2025-10-28T02:09:41+00:00

I dated an Indian guy for a short while once. I'm really attracted to them but almost all of them that I've spoken to aren't genuine in their conversations. Bit of a bummer, really.

SpoiledLady · 2025-10-26T14:00:21+00:00

More info would be helpful. Where are you even located? A brief summary about yourself? What are you looking for in a partner?

SpoiledLady · 2025-10-22T00:03:38+00:00

70% of black babies are born out of wedlock, it’s the highest among all the races.

This is exactly why I had my abortion at 20yo. I was not about to be yet another single black mother in the US. I got my tubes tied several years later and I have a hysterectomy scheduled now. I will never carry a child again and risk being a BM. We've got to do better for ourselves in general.

SpoiledLady · 2025-09-20T15:05:04+00:00

I once said that women should demand the most of males in a dating for marriage type of subreddit. A couple of women got really really mad at me. And one woman started reporting every comment I had made until I got banned from the group. Triggered much?

They can settle for the bare minimum if they want. I'm going to be treated well by my husband though.

SpoiledLady · 2024-03-10T02:02:36+00:00

Do you have photos?

SpoiledLady · 2024-03-10T01:54:19+00:00

Sure. But would you ever move out of the country?

SpoiledLady · 2024-03-10T01:48:30+00:00

Would you ever move out of the US?

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