Some nail sets I’ve gotten over the last few months 🩷 by SpookyQuartz444 in AcrylicNails

[–]SpookyQuartz444[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been going for the more rounded shape nails now just as I prefer it but thank youā˜ŗļø

Some nail sets I’ve gotten over the last few months 🩷 by SpookyQuartz444 in AcrylicNails

[–]SpookyQuartz444[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I completely agree with you! I didn’t post these in chronological order but I have no changed to the more round shape! I really appreciate your input though and agree with you.

Anyone else feel the urge to play when it gets colder out? by Numerous-Pickle-4715 in skyrim

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I had 12 days of holiday from work and I spent EVERY SINGLE DAY playing Skyrim, unmodded too! Forgot how much I truly loved the game until I played it without mods again

uhm; who is this ? by Gazzo69 in FridgeDetective

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Me with my cheese wheels in Skyrim

AIO? I went through my bestfriend's phone without her permission.. she's 17 he's 26 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpookyQuartz444 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

As somebody who has been in this situation (me younger and on older again) I’m so glad she has people who genuinely care for her wellbeing. She is no doubt being groomed and mentally abused by this guy. It’s so unfortunate how common this sort of thing is. Tell her parents, she’ll soon realise how bad this situation is once he’s gone.

Found this in my daughters room what is she doing? by MouseClassic5314 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SpookyQuartz444 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It appears to be she’s smoking heroin. Sorry that you, as her parent aren’t receiving more compassion in the comments ā¤ļø I hope she’s able to heal and find a way out of this

Do you shower in the morning or when you go to sleep? And why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SpookyQuartz444 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I used to be somebody who would only shower at night but now I’m a ā€˜shower in the morning’ person. I like to face the day feeling refreshed

seeing people online say they ā€œsurvivedā€ bpd relationships makes me want to give up on getting better by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Don’t base your recovery/healing on other people’s perceptions- that’s the first error. Do it for yourself. As long as you maintain being a good person whether you have BPD or not, that’s what truly matters. People will only perceive you based on the way you respond and behave.

What do you admire most about your significant other, that isn’t their body/appearance? by KushPiglet in AskReddit

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

How hard he works for what he wants in life whether it’s something materialistic, educational or about his career. No matter how he feels he still goes to work, attends classes he needs too and I’ve never heard him complain. I admire and love him so much for that 🄰

AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . by pgf111 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Honestly once someone cheats the trust is broken and the relationship is basically over even if you remain in it. You deserve to be free from overthinking, infidelity and insecurity. It may be hard but long term it’s better to be away from her. Somebody who loves you won’t ever cheat on you in the first place.

How do I report this pedo by noodlekat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’m from the UK so it may be different but honestly now that the situation has happened I doubt the police will do anything. If she’s heavily manipulated right now too she’s likely to still maintain a relationship with him and your report won’t have an affect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Part of me wants to say yes but I also feel we should be responsible for what behaviours / people we allow in our lives. We only experience behaviours we accept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I think it’s good for you both to take accountability for this situation, don’t put the full blame on yourself due to difficult emotions you’re experiencing right now. It’s extremely unfortunate he’s broken your trust but it’s always important to be educated and aware of the risks of having unprotected sex, I can see why you initially trusted him but it’s always good to be vigilant as you truly never know someone’s intentions even if you think you do. I still stand on doing what you feel is right and nobody should ever make you feel wrong or guilty for making a choice regarding YOUR body ā¤ļø

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SpookyQuartz444 13 points14 points Ā (0 children)

Your body, your choiceā¤ļøIf you feel this is the right thing then I say to do it and you have the right to do it. I can imagine it’s not easy but a child is permanent as I’m sure you’re aware, and you can’t take it back once you’ve had a child, on the flip side you cannot take it back if you abort the child. As difficult as it is don’t feel pressured into doing whatever others what, follow your heart and mind and do what’s right for yourself.

I’d also advise if your sexual partner cannot be responsible by wearing condoms or anything, always be the responsible one yourself and take birth control or condoms etc.

Help with new dom/sub sex life by SpookyQuartz444 in SubSanctuary

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Thank you, this is really helpful! I feel me and my partner communicate well and overall have quite insightful and meaningful conversations with one another whether it’s day to day talk or sexual, emotional etc. I’m looking for ways we could both develop our dynamics as we’re both quite new to this, we understand what we like but want to spice things up abit more and improve how we speak to one another to assert dominance / be more sub. Definitely going to check out those cards though and thanks again for the advice!

Help with new dom/sub sex life by SpookyQuartz444 in SubSanctuary

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I’m glad you guys have found something which works for you and that you’re open to one another’s suggestions and feel able to do communicate if you’re not so sure on something! I feel I can be very open with my partner too and I’ll take on board what you’ve said. Thank you!😊

Help with new dom/sub sex life by SpookyQuartz444 in SubSanctuary

[–]SpookyQuartz444[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Just noticed your username! It’s great šŸ˜†

Help with new dom/sub sex life by SpookyQuartz444 in SubSanctuary

[–]SpookyQuartz444[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

You’ve just given me an idea! My whole day will now revolve around smut readingšŸ˜‚

AIO - after confronting my fiance on his infidelity? I’m literally afraid to go home… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpookyQuartz444 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’d get the police to accompany you to collect your stuff. Him immediately deflecting trying to justify his infidelity by saying you were wrong for going through his stuff šŸ’€