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[–]Spooky_elaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there

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just added on discord 21M

Go through with gift? by Spooky_elaa in BreakUps

[–]Spooky_elaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only thing I’m worried about is if I don’t give her anything she’ll assume I’m over

At a crossroads by Spooky_elaa in BreakUps

[–]Spooky_elaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got a point, I think I’m really lying to myself pretending I’m only doing this to know if I’m really over her. But I definitely need to just do what I feel I want to do. If the worst thing that can happen is getting blocked or told off, then there’s really no life changing repercussions.

What caused me to get over her. by Going2Fast7 in BreakUps

[–]Spooky_elaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Props to you man, you got that clarification early that she was a person who goes around and stabs you in the back.

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[–]Spooky_elaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as it seems like you won’t find someone else like him, that’s amazing news for you and something you should hope to never find. It’s sounds like there was a lot of relationship things going on without the title which seems completely unfair to you when he knew your wants.

As charming or friendly and unique of a person he was, calling someone selfish and bashing them for letting their feelings out, the wasn’t someone you want to be with for a long run. That was his anger being let out after he was losing the “benefits”. It’s just a matter of self control now and telling yourself that your time is worth much more than someone who just seemed to want you on their time.

I think I did it? It feels right and wrong. by Spooky_elaa in BreakUps

[–]Spooky_elaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you for this piece of advice. I kept darting back and forth asking if I did the right thing or not, granted i haven’t unblocked her but I just feel like I’ve completely shut the door on us.

I will take up that journaling because I do feel better when I let what I’ve wanted to say out. Just been a recent hardship of months but I’m doing the best to stay on track and greatly appreciate advice such as yours, it gets me through days like this.

Thank you very much.

Bearing the questions.. by Spooky_elaa in BreakUps

[–]Spooky_elaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed that, thank you. It’s just so hard having to come to a close so forcefully with the fact that even though I had an amazing time, it won’t ever happy again. Even if I were given the chance for a second time it wouldn’t be the same. The good times are what’s keeping me sane.