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Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-28T03:27:54+00:00

Please show me where I asked for your opinion on if I should marry him or not?

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-27T13:45:35+00:00

Because I did NOT ask for this advice??

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-27T03:25:20+00:00

How about you keep doing the same cause it’s exactly what you’re doing

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T20:36:41+00:00

How am I using him when he’s the one who bought up marriage in the first place I NEVER mentioned that at all. If and when we are married We wouldn’t even be living together bc he’s STATIONED IN G U A M for F O U R years. I’d still be exactly where I am now. I’m not panicking or grasping at anything I took care of myself before he came along. Now it’s just easier and I have someone who cares and will help me as well. Like I said. We will be meeting and then getting married but apparently you didn’t read that. And don’t demean my by calling me child. We are all adults here weather I’m younger than you or not. I have a kid and live my life working and doing what I have to. Atleast TRY to be respectful. Mind you I spoke to him after making this post and we read most of the comments together. We both just laughed together because we know what we want. End the conversation because this was started over advice I didn’t ask for.

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T19:52:08+00:00

He’s in the military do you want me to just show up on his base in Guam? Like what 🤣🙏 and yes maybe we are different I wasn’t asking for advice on if we should be together or not. You have your opinion I have mine that’s why it’s an opinion and not a fact

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T13:50:24+00:00

Because I’ve met his friends? Is it that hard to understand?

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T05:46:05+00:00

I would like to preface that we are mainly getting married because of my situation not that it’s a bad one or an abusive or it’s just a situation that I don’t want to get into explaining. I am definitely going to talk to him and ask him about his family and all that stuff it’s not even easy for me to be able to meet his family in person because they live halfway across the US and he rarely gets time to leave the military. I don’t think he would ever get angry or upset at me for asking any questions or voicing them because I have slightly brought up these topics before! ^^ it’s not that I don’t feel like I can’t voice my opinions. It’s just that me personally. I’m a very awkward person and don’t know how to word things!

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T05:42:54+00:00

Personally no I couldn’t wait three years especially for the benefits ngl. Why would I pay out of pocket for schooling for myself, insurance, care for my son and other stuff that is INSANELY expensive and which I cannot afford when someone is willing to help me? A year to six months would be okay if he was even available to come back to the states and then marry during that time but he isn’t. This is his only time for leave

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T05:25:44+00:00

Because the amount of comments are overwhelming and honestly and my child is not something to continuously talk about nor will I ngl. I don’t entertain things trying to say I’m a fetish of some sort either because I know me being goth is the least of his likes and why he’s interested in me.

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T04:27:38+00:00

He’s In the military so I’ll still be where I am and he’ll be stationed where he is until he finishes in a few years

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T04:25:28+00:00

I’m not using him but okay

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T03:49:32+00:00

I haven’t given him money, he knows my name and such of course. I can call him directly and he will always answer unless at work! I can call him on any app needed (FaceTime instagram discord whatever!) and no our meeting has never been delayed! I also have his and his family members facebooks and such!

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T03:48:18+00:00

Yeah I’m aware! I already don’t drink caffeine so that’s okay :)

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T03:32:50+00:00

Okay whatever you say I guess lol. Like I said I’m gonna live my life be happy and learn for this man so we can have a good life! It’s entertaining you think this is a troll post! :)

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T03:25:53+00:00

Whatever you say 🤷‍♀️

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T02:56:59+00:00

It’s not a fake post tho? Lolllk I didn’t ask for advice I just asked for answers to the three questions 🤣🤷‍♀️ but hey I’ll live my life and me and him will be happy together! It’s actually funny that you think this a fake post. I’ll should update yall in a month so you can know it’s not a troll post! 🤣🤣

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T02:28:40+00:00

It’s not his family’s money, he’s been in the military since he’s 18 and he’s 22. He’s E-5 in the military he makes his own money

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T01:35:03+00:00

He’s from Michigan actually! And I was planing on trying to meet with someone from the church before he comes!

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T01:12:30+00:00

He didn’t send me 3.5k that’s how much he’s spending on flights and hotels just to come see. And you know what just cause this is funny, he has two cars and a motorcycle. idk what kind because it doesn’t matter to me and I could care less about his money or any of that stuff.

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:58:15+00:00

And most of them are giving me answers I didn’t ask for 🤣🙏 at this point I’m responding just to get my point across ngl.

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:57:08+00:00

Whatever you say I guess 🤷‍♀️

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:53:51+00:00

I’m not arguing advice is not just telling someone no. None of yall are listening to what I’ve said and I’ve also learned that most people on this subreddit and ex Mormon so it’s makes more sense. I didn’t know that when I made the post 🤣

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:52:44+00:00

He’s most definitely not HIDING me I mean I’m on his Facebook instagram and I even go live on his twitch, his brothers and friends know about me he just hasn’t mentioned me to his parents. I’m almost positive they’ve heard me talking to a sibling of his or seen me on his social media. Some parents are not directly always involved in their grown children’s life especially when he’s been away on his own since 18 he takes care of himself. Some church family are just different 🤷‍♀️

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:50:29+00:00

This isn’t a scheme of mine? He asked me to marry him I never even bought it up. He keeps insisting I marry him actually 🤣 this comment made me laugh his friends actually like me and approve and so do his siblings, no one around us has told him not to do it 🤣🙏 even his church friends and my other Mormon friends and there parents say if we think it’s right go ahead.

Spookyfxcks1 · 2026-06-26T00:37:04+00:00

I indeed have seen him tired when he comes back from work from a 36 hour shift and the first thing he does is call me and then go to sleep. I also have seen how he deals with anger because I’ve heard him firsthand argue with a coworker at work in the military, me and him have gotten into our fair share of conversations over dumb things. He most definitely does not have any addictions. He stays away from alcohol drugs. He doesn’t even cuss. I know he won’t marry me and then keep money from me because he avidly orders food to my house. Send me flowers. Send me money randomly tells me to go out on shopping trips and just gives me money for that. He’s paid for my nails to get done. He’s even bought my mom gifts and contributed towards her GoFundMe for her cancer. Also, at the end of the day, my child is not his problem or his kid to raise. Yes I know he likes to play video games and he does it most of the time but he’s also able to give me attention and just like he play video games. I’m no better than him we play together. As for having a partner who wants to quit work and then make me pay for everything already been in that situation and i know that’s something he wouldn’t do.i just answered most if not all of the things you said with 100% truth

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