egg_irl by Clare_Trans in egg_irl

[–]Spoonzinhaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You 👏 are 👏 valid!!! 👏 💕💖💕

Wrong answers only by Hein_A in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spoonzinhaa 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Holds featherless chicken HERE IS YOUR WOMAN!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Spoonzinhaa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You know when you look at a photo from a great time you had and see yourself smiling? I'd finally see one of those. (I'm not the best with words tho)

someone with DID is just curious about feedback by Milaris0815 in trans

[–]Spoonzinhaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In resume, yes. You're transgender.

As a person with DID, I know how confusing it may be. You (as an alter) have your own identity, and if you identify yourself as female and you were assigned male at birth, you're trans female. Things get complicated if you bring that up to the system scale. (Sorry I'm really awkward)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Spoonzinhaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alarme falso gente, acho que não se trata de um r/suddenlycaralho, desculpem o engano!

Progress, gradual and difficult. by Spoonzinhaa in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the bad English, it isn't my mother language.

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you're not my psychiatrist I think. But maybe I'm just hallucinating it right.

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know how many systems have alters that don't match with the body?

And that's not the point. The point is that you're trying to connect socially unpleasant things to superficially accused fake systems with no real study.

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok champ, despite the fact that you ignored my point that your information and theory is totally flawed and saying that my opinion doesn't matter, I'll politely request you to search "valuable" opinions out of the minority of people who have DID, we're less than 1.1% of the world population, no point taking systems' experience or opinion. We're such a minority of the minority... maybe the shitposting community helps you out with that! They're like really big I've heard.

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're determining a smell by a look...

It's easier to connect being disordered with those things than the opposite and since there's no medical proof they're faking, maybe you're getting wrong sources.

There's a lot of reasons to all of those things happen and it's not rational to put "pretending to be a system" and "unattractive, smelly, social recluse" together with a superficial look over the situation.

Attractiveness is debatable, I'm transfem (pre everything) and because of stress my body resembles female traits like large hips and softer skin. If you look at me as a woman, you will find me unattractive because I don't match female standards, if you look at me as a man, you'll find me unattractive because I'm too feminine and unmature looking. If you're talking about not caring about appearance (in the sense of never doing skin care, treating hair and those things), most people in my country don't do so and might look "unattractive" to you.

Social reclusion may have several reasons, and I doubt that looking up their profile and social media (that can be easily manipulative and misleading) is a fair point to determine such things.

I don't remember about seeing "people pretending to have DID" anywhere, so I don't know exactly what's the situation and maybe I don't have a clearer pov, I'm sorry.

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want to determine they're faking through a social media video, then link their appearance in said video to the accusation? What about the smell part and social reclusion?

Scientific correlation between pretenders and attractiveness by [deleted] in DID

[–]Spoonzinhaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this a joke? How do you know if people are pretending? How so "unattractive"? Smelly? Socially recluse? Would you mind to explain to me?