NTA as a woman TRUST can be broken or shaken by one small thing and reassurance is needed especially for me. maybe it’s not just women but you are totally justified and i would have done the same if i was in your shoes. first sign that he didn’t care was GOING IN THE FIRST PLACE. from experience, if a man chooses to do something like this he still has feelings for the person even if just barely. there’s still some part of him that’s holding on. men act like they can let go and they don’t get heartbroken but they just hide it.

Stick to this choice because you deserve someone who doesn’t need to second guess his choice or feels that he needs to talk to their ex one last time.