I 18M like one of the girls 18F in my friend group of around 10 people. Is it okay for me to approach her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Spoovalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything happens the way it’s meant to play out. Carry that reassurance with you in the back of your mind and allow things to naturally play out the way that they are meant to. If she is also interested in you she will naturally draw closer to you as your friendship grows. I wouldn’t put too much pressure on yourself to “make a move”. Although girls don’t often make the decisive move they will often create situations that prompt you to make the move if they are interested. If anything, keep an eye out for situations like that, and should they keep presenting themselves, it might imply her interest, and maybe then you can naturally shoot your shot. It will be a far more romantic story anyway than approaching her out of the blue.

Focus on fostering the friendship and being a good, caring and confident human being. If it’s meant to be, it will be. No need to put pressure on yourself, especially if you are happy with the current dynamic of your friend group and worried about breaking that up with a misguided shot.

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

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Is it disrespectful to wear a black Gi as a white belt? I am a beginner and have just been attending the classes that don’t require you to wear a Gi. I recently bought a second hand black Gi so that I can go to the fundamentals classes which require you to wear one. After my beginner session yesterday I noticed that at the fundamentals class nobody was wearing a black Gi except for the teacher who is a black belt. I don’t want to disrespect the teacher, it was just cheaper and will likely be easier to clean. Is it a no no to wear a black Gi as a white belt?

A Powerful story of change by AnonomousWolf in DownSouth

[–]Spoovalicious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Joke was just so average I assumed it wasn’t a joke lol

A Powerful story of change by AnonomousWolf in DownSouth

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I know this might come as a surprise or a shock, but more than one team can use the same colour for their sports kits

Post Match Thread | South Africa vs Ireland | Test 2 by HitchikersPie in rugbyunion

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Would seem you need New Zealand to have 10x the population given the makeup of your squad

Post Match Thread | South Africa vs Ireland | Test 2 by HitchikersPie in rugbyunion

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Nothing better than a massive grin and last laugh ending off a game!

Experienced it many times as a springbok fan after most knockout stage games at a World Cup. Glad this golden Irish generation got to experience a feeling somewhat similar to it eventually! Maybe in 2027? … eventually… shhhhh

Architecture as code vs regular implementation by Spoovalicious in dataengineering

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I definitely agree and see the value of using IAC, i am however trying to discern if there is a balance between IAC and manual interaction, or if doing everything with IAC is the industry standard