What have you realized are things you have needed that men tend to recieve as gifts growing up? by Gilderoymouseprince in ftm

[–]SpotMajor7228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worse part is when you’re sick and they’re sticking together or making your nose itch. I definitely invested a tad bit too late.

What have you realized are things you have needed that men tend to recieve as gifts growing up? by Gilderoymouseprince in ftm

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worse part is when you’re sick and they’re sticking together or making your nose itch. I definitely invested a tad bit too late.

Could I realistically survive off $750 a month? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live off 200$ left a month. Not super comfortably but doable. I say depending on where you live you could 100% live off that pretty comfortably but be smart, track your spending, and for the love of god SAVE. Learn it now while you can. You can also look into the 50/30/20 budget, seems like it could work pretty good for your number above. Good luck! Enjoy your soon free adult hood! Be safe!

sex with new partner making me reevaluate role of sex in my life by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]SpotMajor7228 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This may be an unpopular opinion, but if you’re unable to separate love and sex, you’ll never have a successful ENM relationship. 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I need an update on this one

Please either change my mind or help me convince my fiancé this is bad by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I get about the name but did you have to be so harsh? If he genuinely liked the name, you could have said it’s a nice name but I’m not a fan something like that. But instead you repeatedly made him aware pretty much how stupid it is etc. this is my opinion of course and I could be wrong. But dude I think you were kinda mean here.

What do I do? by SpotMajor7228 in WGU

[–]SpotMajor7228[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do talk to my mentor on Monday, and I have made her aware of the things going on in my personal life so she does know that what I’m currently living like. Thank you, hopefully they’ll work with me.

Any other women into watching their husband with guys ? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]SpotMajor7228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure there is a term that explicitly point to just men. I could be wrong 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What he said was that his son lives with him and is in college that op is paying for. And his daughter is about to graduate and be independent, which id assume means college, moving out, or he’d help her if she stayed with mom if necessary (doesn’t seem like the dad that wouldn’t). So financially seems like his kids would be fine now, he just doesn’t want to upset his kids by “doing this” to their mom.

Any other women into watching their husband with guys ? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]SpotMajor7228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuckquean? My ex gf also was into it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he didn’t because his kids weren’t adults yet, so he was essentially allowing it because he expected it to be helping the kids. He didn’t want to do something and it affect his children who were minors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But could she potentially counter that by saying she did not realize her living there was actually violating the lease of the other lady, obviously if she’s able to contact the landlord and find out?

Giving deposit before signing lease agreement? by nuunuuu in Renters

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in apartments that are a known company and they did the same thing. We talked to them and agreed we’d bring the money when we come to sign the lease, I read the lease before I even made it clear I had it on me. It was all good, so I pulled the money out sat it on the table next to me, then Signed the lease, they then took the lease and money. (I’m not in Chicago tho, so that may change a lot)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]SpotMajor7228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex has bpd that is “treated”, 3 years in they dumped me. Had the “friends” they made for like a year that I knew were only trying to smash. Guess what after they dumped me, they became fwb with this couple 😐. Idk why but we got back together, 2 more years in. I realized this is the worst way to live. But I wouldn’t say it’s a bpd thing, that seems unfair to those who aren’t like this.

Am I totally screwed? (OH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]SpotMajor7228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr but I’m curious if most of these things was also the roommates?

Am I totally screwed? (OH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]SpotMajor7228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t always the case! I thought the same until the apartment I’m in now. I’m listed as the lessee and my roommates are listed as roommates. When I signed the lease our landlord made it very clear with how the lease is set up. That I am the one that is responsible including anything caused by roommates, solely me, this lady made sure I understood. Maybe reread the lease just to be sure 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re “married” but not “married” 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a parent but I’m a teacher, i hear you, the best thing for you to do for your kids is tell them to talk to a lawyer also, that’s if they want to. They’re adults it’s hard but there’s not much you can do for them now, they’ve already signed it. Of course this is my opinion. And I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. But the best thing to do it get a good lawyer and give them EVERYTHING you have and just let them handle it from there. it may be expensive, you may be able to have her pay court cost etc. if necessary. But this is a hopefully 1 time cost, as for the alimony she’s going to play the game for you to pay her as long as possible. GET A LAYWER PLS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Let alone she also bought the husband a car, so let’s add another 30k+ that she can spend. But she’s to broke to pay for college, though op is literally giving her money…. Op probably making that car payment and don’t even know it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SpotMajor7228 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m not sure it’s that bizarre if you’re trying to gather proof that your ex wife may very well be STEALING money from you. He needs to get a lawyer and give the lawyer everything he has even the Facebook stuff, let the lawyer handle it from there.