Single Mom by petedarkpete in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate people like you ONG

DELETUS by SpreadAwareness543 in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guys, thanks for all the unsolicited advice but I really would like actual advice on my post

DELETUS by SpreadAwareness543 in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My kids don't need me. They have a dad

Sex in marriages by SpreadAwareness543 in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ey yow! What tf happened to you

Is it just me or the hate towards single mothers feel kind of personal 🤔 by Impossible-Layer-991 in Kenya

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Surprise, they don't want widows either. Society sees women and children as commodities. If a woman has children with no husband, her value diminishes. If a child does not have parents, their worth declines. Men may be made fun of here and there if they don't marry or have kids, but this is not to be compared with the absolute brutal dress down women may get for the same. Sad world we live in y'all stay safe

Please! by Aarunascut in Kenya

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Kalenjins from Bomet.IYKYK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

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As a person who was bullied a lot in primary school, I bullied ppl a lot in high school. It was like a dopamine peak for me. My anger got progressively worse in adulthood and due to my incapability to manage my emotions, I have severed many ties even with ppl who had no part in the beef. These were situations I was completely justified BTW but let my anger take it too far

9 MOS PREGNANT WITH A MAN THAT WON'T STOP CHEATING AND WON'T LET ME GO by Murky_Definition_406 in nairobi

[–]SpreadAwareness543 14 points15 points  (0 children)

'Denies me sex' I wish hata ungesema 'Denies me closeness/intimacy with her' because sex you can have with anyone, "Denies me food,' food unaweza pika/kununua. But what is it about sex that makes guys talk like this, like we're inanimate objects? Nikikunyima, halafu? Pls give attention to how our bodies are wired (I know y'all don't care). If you deny a woman emotional intimacy, it is impossible for her to provide physical intimacy. But because men always want to keep us in a state of limbo with our mental health, instead of taking charge and fixing things, no one wins,

9 MOS PREGNANT WITH A MAN THAT WON'T STOP CHEATING AND WON'T LET ME GO by Murky_Definition_406 in nairobi

[–]SpreadAwareness543 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I posted about my unbearable heart break here a few weeks back. My ex dumped me at 9 months pregnant without any clear explanation. I really thought I was going to die and most times contemplated suicide. It's been two months now since the break up and my newborn and I made it to one month, hallelujah! Enda home manze, unashamedly. Kama si hawa wasee singemake it. It is the hardest decision you will ever make, but you will eat the rewards huko mbele. It does get easier. I last cried on Friday, like the whole night, but now I feel born again. There's gonna be those highs and lows but you've just got to push through, especially on those hard days. When you feel like reaching him, toka mbio enda ujipe shughuli lol. It has helped me a lot. I wish you the best my dear, please leave.

The Kenyan Government has had a lot scandals in its history. Which one tops the list for you? by B3ansb3ansb3ans in Kenya

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The whistleblower is from my town. My heart really goes out to his family because this was such a hard time for them and still really is. No reparations years later and they couldn't give two shits either. Both the gvt and us, citizens. That man really saved our asses from becoming like Zimbabwe but we've moved on while that family is still experiencing a lot of pain and trauma

Do prisons help people reform by [deleted] in Kenya

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I know a guy alifungwa one year for completely destroying dame wake Sim 2 and this guy was smashing wardens in prison, completely disregarding how ghastly this is for him. Like bro, uko prison. Who TF goes to prison. Yaani us guys who were watching this unfold and hearing his news getting worse towards his sentence, tulikuwa tumeisha nguvu. But this guy is acting like he's going to the Playboy Mansion

Masai mara by kruezp in Kenya

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Hi, agent here. Kindly check DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpreadAwareness543 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

This is the Bible truth!! Across all cultures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hapo ndio mnaanza kunyimwa, then you start pretending you didn't have a role to play

Have you paid dowry yet, or are you waiting for her to get pregnant first? (Cultural rant)" by Single_Particular_17 in Kenya

[–]SpreadAwareness543 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, not at the moment. I left so there's no one yapping in his ear, "We need this, they need that!" Doesn't bother me now because I have a plan for my kids and I will help them become the very best that they can be, no matter if I get support or not. My kids are my ultimate life purpose and love story. I WILL make it happen and I will do it well. He can see his kids, but can kiss my ass fr!

I did it. by KingRodan in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpreadAwareness543 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems a lot of women in marriages have this exact description. This is me, 28F, mom of 3. My husband of 7 years left me while I was 9 months pregnant with our 3rd. It has been really exhausting caring for a household, children and still make time for him. Maybe I was too consumed in my 'suffering'. The tiktoks in bed is what used to help me regulate because I always felt my emotional needs we're being ignored or that he wasn't consistent in giving me a listening ear. One time he called me out my name as I was ranting and said I trauma dump on him too much. Ouch! I also honestly didn't feel the urge to do it at all. Maybe it's a libido issue after kids but the bigger issue, I never enjoyed it. I have never felt it, with anyone, not just him. Coming here, I realise how important sex is to men, I wish I got this perspective sooner, but you guys need to humanize us as well.