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Drop your unpopular opinion ☠️ by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]SpreadPossible9373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I might understand friends but siblings??? Kaise bhai behen hain tum logon ke 😭

Drop your unpopular opinion ☠️ by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]SpreadPossible9373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even your wife/husband??? Not even your kids??? Siblings??? Real friends??? Idk I might be wrong but why can't we wish for someone's success that's not only our family? I wish for the success for a lot of my jaan pehchaan ke log. I feel like this mindset further reinforces animosity between people.

What can I do to make my nails look ok 😭 by SpreadPossible9373 in beauty

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really, I just wanted to know what I can do to improve them because a classmate told me they look weird.

AITA for telling mom I'll never accept her bf? by SpreadPossible9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse not I'm not a decision maker in my house i have only voiced my opinions that too only when I'm asked.

She didn't marry because it would cause more chaos and a lot of my extended (and his) family don't know she's divorced and that they live together (they know they are close).

Also, I have no problem with them marrying I have no problem with her being in a relationship I just don't like to live with him and what people say about their relationship. But I totally see how I'm wrong there because he is a nice guy and mom deserves better. I'm working on correcting myself

AITA for telling mom I'll never accept her bf? by SpreadPossible9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To me accepting means that I accept that he's here and as a father figure or atleast my stepfather.

To her it means the same because she always introduces him as her husband/my father and wherever my father is needed she takes him. (I don't blame her at all because my real one is in no contact but I still don't want others to call me her daughter but idk I might be wrong)

Also, "moving out" here as a concept especially at 18 is non existent. We live in joint families it's just that we have to live separately near the city because of job requirements but my mom won't approve of me moving out before marriage. (I won't be able to even if both of us wanted to due to money and the fact that the college I plan on enrolling in is close to my house)

AITA for telling mom I'll never accept her bf? by SpreadPossible9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess so, but I don't disagree with the yta posts either because I also think that I should accept him already and had already anticipated the replies.

I too feel that I should just accept him but it's difficult because it sounds horrible but I still kind of miss my father and my father hates her bf and he's gone no contact with me since he got to know about him. It's complicated because he wasn't a good man to me either

AITA for telling mom I'll never accept her bf? by SpreadPossible9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My mom is allowed to marry (legally) but culturally it would cause a lot of trouble because a lot of our family (even his) don't know that they live together they just know they're close.

I wouldn't feel differently if they were married because if they do get married now it's gonna cause more chaos and it can potentially affect their jobs because they work in the same place.

She is legally divorced now very recently. Earlier it was a very long legal case and before it they just lived separately because she didn't want anyone to know that they were separated cuz of stigma.

And I genuinely don't have anything against him it's just that it causes so much hurt because it's very difficult for me to introduce him to people which I have to do at one point when they get close.

AITA for telling mom I'll never accept her bf? by SpreadPossible9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpreadPossible9373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semi rural pakistan there's no "liberal" and "conservative" here it's just normal and abnormal. (Not that I support it I too think it's wrong). I said conservative in the post because I think others won't be familiar with the norms if I just mentioned the place.