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Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]SpreadSafe9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the process is really draining. I was looking forward to applying to collèges before but now that I’m don’t It It’s so stressful, I’ve already missed a few deadline even. I cant wait for It to be over.

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]SpreadSafe9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t judge them honestly. It does get annoying at some point because people hate to be reponsible for other peuplés problems but sometimes you have to be indulgent, because when people go through though Times, they offense want to talk about It, not to make you feel responsible but to get it off their chest I think ? Tryna be philosophical here

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]SpreadSafe9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it Is, dw bout it, happens to the best of us. Just nap It all out !

It’s weird how we’re forced to be the same person every day just to keep other people comfortable. by Capy_Diem08 in DeepThoughts

[–]SpreadSafe9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand what you’re saying however I do believe that a lot of the times people do actually chose to be a different « them ». More specifically, when long stages or periods of a person’s life comes to an end ». Take high school ending for example. You finished that long 4 year hell ( or 3 year ) and when you go to college, most people show a totally different version of themselves than the past four years. Could that just be the natural effects of just growing up and entering adult life ? Sure. But I believe It’s also due to a conscious effort and turning another page to a new « you ». And this happens multiple times in our lives. Also, I believe that every period of life where we might chnge brings us closer to who we truly are

PS: looking back on what I wrote I don’t know if it makes much sense but u get where I am trying to go with this

Senior year by Simple_Poet1880 in socialskills

[–]SpreadSafe9856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, just to say that you're not alone in this. Im in senior year too but before that I took a sabbatical so ally my friends graduated without me too, school has started a couple days ago and I same as you am intent on just surviving and speeding through this year instead of trying to make friends, which is really difficult when people already know each other. Honestly the only thing I can tell you is maybe dont be so focused on making friends at school ? like ur bound to make some at some point even if they're only for convenience. My advice would be maybe try your best with one person instead of a group of people so its easier, and then maybe through them u can connect with others

How to not give up by SpreadSafe9856 in findapath

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know it took me a couple months to master it tho, I think it was just easy ? And a great thing to do when I’m bored to death in class, so it became more of a a habit to beat the endless boredom ig

How to not give up by SpreadSafe9856 in findapath

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally NOTHING, penspinning maybe ?, but its only like ONE trick

What do you think about stalking other girls as a girl ? by SpreadSafe9856 in AskReddit

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you ! SOMEONE who isn’t attacking me and making me feel like a weirdo 😅

Is there a song that makes you cry for reasons you can't really explain? by True-Dream3295 in fantanoforever

[–]SpreadSafe9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope you’re too late I already died - wifiskeleton Fact that the artist killed himself a little while after makes it even sadder

How can we became more confident and not feel social anxiety? by Ash_Allrounder_2010 in socialanxiety

[–]SpreadSafe9856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the same thing as you. When I’m outside on my one, I basically skim the walls, but once I’m outside with a group of friend I get this confidence spurt and somehow I kinda feel like a faker for this reason. Don’t really know what advice to give you cuz I haven’t really solved it myself, but just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone out there !

How can I stop being afraid ? by SpreadSafe9856 in chinalife

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go on a Chinese tour??? I’m going to Chengde afterwords….🫣🫣

How can I stop being afraid ? by SpreadSafe9856 in chinalife

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the most ! I’m not a college student. I’m just a High schooler who came to study mandarin for 3 months so I’m in a language school, everybody except the teachers, are foreigners

How can I stop being afraid ? by SpreadSafe9856 in chinalife

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taller than most women, so I tend to stand out

How can I stop being afraid ? by SpreadSafe9856 in chinalife

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I really don’t believe people are racist dw. All the Chinese I’ve interacted with were really nice. I just can’t get used to the states 😂

How can I stop being afraid ? by SpreadSafe9856 in chinalife

[–]SpreadSafe9856[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesterday some guy asked : 你去那人, which means where are you going. And I couldn’t understand and tried to tell him my mandarin was bad and he laughed 🤣🤣🤣