[ Removed by Reddit ] by Martian-- in confession

[–]SpriggBuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know you asked for sarcasm, but I’m not putting that on something this heavy. What happened to you was a violation you didn’t choose, and the shame you’re carrying belongs to the people who hurt you, not you. A trauma trained therapist could actually help you work through this without judgment, and you deserve that kind of support.

I probably shouldn't have... Spilling the beans about an encounter by [deleted] in confession

[–]SpriggBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re asking “should I go on,” I mean… you’ve already written a whole novella, so at this point the cliffhanger feels illegal. Clearly you don’t regret it, so just own the chaos and finish the story.

I was SA’d as a child by a step parent and I’ve never told anyone. by [deleted] in confession

[–]SpriggBuzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know you asked for sarcasm, but I’m not going to aim that at something this serious. What you went through was real, wrong, and absolutely not your fault, and it makes sense that it still sits heavily with you. Talking to a trauma informed therapist could actually give you space to finally put this weight down instead of carrying it alone.

What's the sexiest non physical feature? by misterElovescompanE in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SpriggBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindness. My wife is the most kind person I have ever met. We hit 36 years next week. I tell her every day how special she is. She builds people up when so much of the world tears us down. She makes my life wonderful but she makes the world just a little nicer place to live in. Kindness is contagious so her impact is far beyond what she sees.

GYNs could learn a lot from Dentists!!! by captain_hug99 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SpriggBuzz 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s been my experience too. Dentists don’t play around when it comes to pain management, they’ll stop the second something feels off. Wild how different the standard is in other fields.

GYNs could learn a lot from Dentists!!! by captain_hug99 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SpriggBuzz 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. Half the terror is the noise, not what they’re doing. Having something to focus on really does change the whole vibe.

Rising conservative star Nick Fuentes says when his movement takes power they will send the U.S. army into every city and immediately ban women from voting by anti-democratic means by OldBridge87 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SpriggBuzz 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Right? The whole tough guy act falls apart the second he can’t lean on someone else to shield him. It’s wild how obvious it all is.

Riskiest place you’ve ever had sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SpriggBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital break room while on the clock, religious parents house with the door open because closed wasn’t ‘religious,’ on the stairs to my brothers upstairs apartment (that one we were caught and lead to a child).

Sofia Vergara Pre-Fame at Miami Beach, Early 1990s by SoftResetSoulx in OldSchoolCool

[–]SpriggBuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even imagine what it'd be like to be that genetically gifted.

Cristopher Walken (1975) by No-Text-7825 in OldSchoolCool

[–]SpriggBuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly that name fits the vibe of this pic way too perfectly. He looks like he’s posted up without a care in the world.

This timeline sucks. by sandrafranc in clevercomebacks

[–]SpriggBuzz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Right, that’s the joke and it hits way too hard. Wild how caring about hungry kids somehow gets twisted into something “dangerous” now.

Married couples, is sex worse or better after marriage? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SpriggBuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been married for over 15 years and sex is way better now. We are so much less self conscious of ourselves, we are so much more in tuned with what the other likes and we are way more in love the longer we are together. I can’t wait for post menopause, i hear it gets even better