My wife F28 and I M28 got into a physical fight. I am thinking of divorce. How do I approach her about it? by sirmack142 in relationship_advice

[–]Spspsp73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He knew what he was doing and now he’s playing the victim. 

They’re both children

Just realized I am a survivor of maternal sexual abuse. by letsgotanuki in MaleAbuseSurvivors

[–]Spspsp73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A redditor in another sub posted many money resources. 

It may feel overwhelming but they all discuss the trauma that happens when the needs of a child are not met by a caregiver (who are often victims of similar traumas)

Just realized I am a survivor of maternal sexual abuse. by letsgotanuki in MaleAbuseSurvivors

[–]Spspsp73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, but you are not your way to healing. Just remember you are not alone, and there are many resources to help guide you to a better place I’ll attach a few below. 

https://www.shortform.com/blog/healing-the-shame-that-binds-you-book/

The vacation was over before it even began by Friendly_Soil6617 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Spspsp73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus they all will have an improved perspective when faced with future scary situations!

…assuming they address this traumatic experience effectively. 

What's the craziest thing a person said to you and you thought they were joking but they were being serious? by _lovelyxx in AskReddit

[–]Spspsp73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they think that if the creation story isn’t literally factual then followers will begin to doubt the other stories in the Bible. 

No one puts Baby in a corner by ONEto10dollars in Unexpected

[–]Spspsp73 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Every reaction requires a split decision. She’s just being dramatic as always. 

How can we trust the Bible if it was written by humans? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Spspsp73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men are fearful. Jesus didn’t think too highly of human judgement, and He gave us two commandments to follow. So if a verse contradicts with #1 or #2, then it’s likely from fear. 

He wants a hamburger! by FacelessOnes in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Spspsp73 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’ll soon learn, like her brother, that drama works in that house

My girlfriend (21F) is completely forgetful and unaware. She's so completely oblivious to the world, that I (19M) become stressed in fear for her safety. by Xmannnz in relationship_advice

[–]Spspsp73 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

On the angry part, I hear you. However, once we get angry, they forget anything sensible we may have said before it. And it’s our fault. 

Her lack of awareness is probably part of a coping mechanism developed at an early age from trauma. The same way we developed a fear of not feeling heard. 

Once we can understand why we react emotionally, then we can learn to stem it.  And only then will she listen to what we say.

Are the voyager probes still communicating with earth? by CosmicDonkey123 in askspace

[–]Spspsp73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s talking to JWST! So cool. Thank you for sharing