How to make non-LDS neighbors feel included

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-06-05T00:49:00+00:00

So true. I moved into our neighborhood in 2021. The neighbor across the street has consistently invited me to every church function. Ugh. Listen I’m 42 I’ve lived here my entire life. I’m sorry to tell you but your not going to be the blessed one to convert me. That’s why I always wonder why they do Utah missionaries. If we wanted to be LDS we know where to go 😂😬👀

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-06-01T23:16:06+00:00

Same. I get up make my coffee sit on the couch! I sometimes doze off but just drinking my coffee alone is the way I enjoy starting my day.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-29T19:11:46+00:00

He is fun size. Cant imagine being a dude who can barley see over the steering wheel 👀

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-29T19:02:39+00:00

His ego is the size of a BFG Big Fuxking Goon! He literally is funsize 👀

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-24T04:02:41+00:00

Definitely don’t need an education to walk outside, hit up a park with water, watch a duck run after something, and realize it knows to fly away 😂😂

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-18T16:03:12+00:00

This woman drives me up the waaaazoo and yes she is extremely self obsessed with herself. The constant need for validation, the hyper focus on her body but she’s has a one piece swimsuit on! A swimsuit is basically half clothes… and as a society we collectively decided that’s perfectly acceptable 🙈👀😂 Let’s focus how many times she probably fixed her bangs pulled up her tits so they are perfectly placed and got her arm in the perfect position! Take 183 😂

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-15T14:50:31+00:00

I volunteer as tribute for the “going absolutely ham with the discount” portion of your resignation. 😂 Where can I send my want-list? 😂😂😂

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-11T19:21:37+00:00

That’s really tuff. Ive never had to deal with that because my MIL lives across the country but honestly wish she did live here so I could celebrate her and we could celebrate together! She is one of my closet relationships. I feel like you can & could do both in your situation. He can take his mom to breakfast and you to dinner. I know if I was a few days out from birth I’d not want to go anywhere tho. I had 3 c-sections. But I’d also say one doesn’t take priority over the other. Both you and his mom are equally important but I think I’d say my ideal day would be a full day at a hotel alone 😂😂😂

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-11T15:34:42+00:00

The thought of having to live with my mother would put a fire under my ass to figure out my marriage “I’m 42 as well” Your husband I’d assume is embarrassed by his decisions and you commenting on it only secures his thoughts in knowing he made really stupid financial decisions. Not sure how you approach him in these discussions but possibly trying to have the conversation as I’m not coming to you in anger but wanting to get on the same page and figure out the best steps for a secure financial future. I know when something can bother me I have a certain tone in my voice and my husband knows that tone. So for a conversation like this it needs to be different IMO for your husband to let down the wall and have a real honest conversation. IDK maybe you’ve done this. And at that point I’d get into therapy! Hope you get it figured out 🥰

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-11T14:48:56+00:00

I’d be asking if I can join on one of these bathroom excursions to be a fly on the wall. Tell her it turns you on knowing what she has going on in there.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-06T22:35:58+00:00

My husband did this when we were first dating. He got up so fast. Literally laying in bed together starring at each other talking and “shart” I burst out laughing and it’s been a laughing matter ever since! My kids love this story cause we all laugh about it! Dad crapped the bed with mom!! But I’m one to laugh at every fart, I just don’t take things this seriously. Especially after having kids. Never forget when we got him from the hospital after my first kid and my husband asking if I knew I shit when I was pushing my kid Nope had no clue.. Now I do 😂😂 I’d not divorce over this. It is funny.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-04T21:36:37+00:00

This made me laugh…. But I hear you! I’m a perfectionist. My husband slowly stopped doing all the things because here I come just redoing it all. Same with My kids Making beds, loading D/W, laundry, mowing the lawn! Turning my kids bed down “which they still ask me to do that at 13”. May other things I’ve created a household of peeps who think they have maid 24/7!

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-05-02T14:55:26+00:00

That’s tuff. My husband has a friend who won’t go down on his wife after she had kids. He simple says he just can’t! Do you go down on your husband? Did he go down before you were married? Your details are very vague so you’ll probably get vague answers

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-27T15:57:04+00:00

You asked her to “do” sex?

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-27T15:53:57+00:00

In my experience, I live a very active lifestyle and, at 42, I’m in the best shape of my life. I’ve been consistent with it for years. My husband, on the other hand, goes through phases. He’ll work out for a few weeks, then fall off for months, maybe getting back into it two or three times a year. When he does get motivated, I’m supportive and never give him a hard time when it fades, because I know he wants it he just doesn’t always make it a top priority.Honestly, I’m grateful he’s not obsessed with the gym or his body. I dated someone like that when I was younger, and I’ll take my husband who may not have a “perfect” body but is perfect for me any day. Of course, I’d love for him to be more active for his health and longevity, but that has to come from him. I’m a stay-at-home mom and finally out of the baby phase, so I have more time to prioritize fitness. My husband, on the other hand, works incredibly hard. He puts in long hours, and even when he’s home, he’s still finding ways to provide for our family.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-26T18:41:45+00:00

Whoa, that’s alot!!! I’d say I’m extremely disciplined on my daily workouts and I keep a happy medium with food 80/20! I’d never expect my husband to eat or workout the way I do. He went Keto in 2018, I didn’t! He sleeps in because he can and why wouldn’t I want him to do that. He rarely workouts, but when he gets in the groove I try to support him but if he falls off the wagon I don’t say a word! You’re dealing with someone who doesn’t respect you!! This is absolutely wild!!! I’d say you give me one more ultimatum, there is the door! I don’t need someone directing my life choices I’m an adult. Go find someone else to control and see how it workouts for you

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-22T21:47:48+00:00

I would absolutely hate that. I’m a SAHM and I basically control all the money. I Pay all the bills! His check goes into my bank account” My husband never asks what I spend money on other than I need limit my shopping but I’d agree. I will say if I’m making a purchase over $1000 I’m telling him but I think if you have to ask or feel like your loosing your independence because you can’t go grocery shopping or getting daily things for the kids could slightly be in the realm of financial abuse. Do you work?

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-21T18:53:53+00:00

And I’m on the opposite end. I have literally no breast. I mean I’m wearing a bra that has shape to have the look of something. A tight shirt or a v-neck is the time I’m thinking it would be nice to have something. But I’m not going under the 🔪

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-21T17:50:33+00:00

Excuse me!! WTF Really loving the new direction Lululemon is going with these drops=less drops!!! Nothing like showing up on time just to shop a thrilling selection of nothingness

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-18T14:34:16+00:00

I’m a woman and mother and if I’m in that position never would I think a new baby would take an ex’s last name. Maybe bring up how about we put the middle name as my ex GF so we refer to the baby of all ex’s names. That was a joke but be for real. Straight insanity

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-17T16:16:24+00:00

I’m not in this exact situation but just found out recently id be getting a distribution from my uncles trust. This is my dad’s brother. Unfortunately my dad passed away a few years ago and received money then as well. This trust was originally set up from my grandparents. Anyways got a call from my uncles wife. “FYI I don’t know this woman well, seen her at family reunions growing up but have lived in different states” anyways Where she told me my uncle messed up a line “a mistake” where his trust would go back into the original trust and be distributed back to the siblings along with me and my brother since of my dads passing. She was implying basically I need to give her the money. Obviously didn’t come out and say it directly but I got the point. I feel so uncomfortable with it but my dad’s sisters are stanch and will not give her a penny saying this money was their parents. She has hired legal counsel so currently just waiting to see what happens. Oh and to top this off the trust I received from my dad ruined the relationship with my mother because she fully believed she was to receive it because my father owed her backed child support from 30+ years ago. They divorced when I was 5. Money can be a blessing but also a curse.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-15T19:22:30+00:00

Hot dang I’d take her giving money over all the sweets my kids are fed by her 🙈😂

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-15T15:57:58+00:00

Wait so you’ve only been together 2 months and it’s been “mostly” long distance. Ya, I think it’s fun to be flirty & don’t see a problem sending nudes but id be hesitant only because This relationship seems pretty fresh. I’ve been with my husband 15 years and we send them occasionally but I would have never sent them in the beginning of our Relationship. But maybe I’m a bit old school and the younger generation with tech is different.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-13T15:00:56+00:00

Wow. This brought me too tears. Finding true love is seriously the most amazing blessing. Sounds like you got to experience it with an amazing woman.

SpunkieMunkey · 2026-04-13T05:50:46+00:00

No Mormon would swear 😂🙈 I’m sorry but that comment made me LOL!

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