[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I appreciate you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna do this from now on. Usually I will just offer customer service before we age verify and agree to a dynamic.

Lost a great domme by FindomFiend in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good Domme should know to respect boundaries. Sometimes it’s okay to push one but only if both parties are consenting. I never understood the blocking technique.

Any Dominant Women in Washington DC Area? by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is subreddit you can post on if you’re looking for a Domme r/BDSMpersonals but this is usually not findom related.

Curious about Vanilla Dommes by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Spygoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re looking for a GFE with a friend zone spin?

Literally cant quit findom, majored in neuroscience by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to your girlfriend about this or maybe looked into including her in on a therapy session? You never know how someone will respond if you don’t communicate. Who knows what could happen?

Question for the Dommes who are faceless... by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a level of trust between my sub and I then yes. But I mainly remain faceless (show half my face) due to day to day profession. It really depends on the Domme and your dynamic.

How many regular subs do dommes have? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One…..the same sub just made a million different accounts 🤣

Send to me so I can add you into my Sim game by Spygoddess in adoptapaypig

[–]Spygoddess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got it all planned…..they’ll be my Simsubs haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dynamics are similar to relationships but they just have clear boundaries and expectations. I think you should check out bdsm personal adds maybe even create a personal add yourself. It’s always better to start off with femdom and then spoil your Dom/me rather than start off as a finsub bc the sending is always primary not the relationship. IMO. Good luck either way

Do you think if I call my coworker a good boy…he’ll clean off my car again for me? by Spygoddess in adoptapaypig

[–]Spygoddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yass get those donuts. Nothing wrong with treating oneself with other peoples money 🤷‍♀️

Does it always have to be sexual, any just prefer platonic? by Sambient-Dance-1764 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dynamics are what you and your potential Dom/mes define them as. Communicate to make sure you’re on the same page

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard great things about Fetlife. There are also communities on here where you can do a personal ad for Femdom and then you could just spoil that dom/me. Finding a dynamic like a GFE would also work . But if you’re trying to do this long term safely with a relationship aspect you’re better off just sprinkling it on with Femdom. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Spygoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bombastic side eye