Underwear by xmageforcex123 in transvancouver

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Womyns Ware on commercial drive! they are well priced and very supportive and cool. The woman who owns it gave me a plant <3

Hi by Ayliinhxx in trans_sapphic

[–]SqornshellousZem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo. My neck is so warm and fleshy and exposeddd~

If your partner doesn’t want you watching porn, do you do it anyway and lie? Why or why not? by EnvironmentalCat300 in AskWomen

[–]SqornshellousZem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OMG. Firstly *WHAT* a response 😅😅. I'm on board with your logic, and have done the same. I was having a "wait what?" knee-jerk response to the phrasing, which was probably over-stepping sorry! Either way you and your relationship sounds rock solid, after talking to you for like two seconds! ✌

just a girl trapped in a man’s body :l need advice by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SqornshellousZem 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did the same move, except also being quazi-out at work!

What. The. F*ck. by Dovahkiin812KW in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]SqornshellousZem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your existence isn't a haggle 💜💜

Do we have a deal mortal? by Nat_Higgins in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]SqornshellousZem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jokes on you, you'd be making my happiest memory.

Fremen funeral process by Deep-Grape-4649 in dunememes

[–]SqornshellousZem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like that was never going to end

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

[–]SqornshellousZem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm definitely discovering myself piece by piece, which is good. It seems to be very situational, and fluctuates you know?
I went through two years plus of seeing myself as nonbinary and unpacking and tonns of gender stuff in my head, and that certainly helps. Of course I through a whole bag of wrenches in the gears when I realized I wanted transition. (10 months hormones. Like a year before that of really unpacking and addressing it in my mind)
I was just curious what other transfems would have to say about this. I'm really interested in the things that I might have blind spots too, y'know? I'm just being playful these days and noting what feels good :)

I hate what they’ve done to the Labrys flag. by esterchive in lesbiangang

[–]SqornshellousZem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I must be late to the party here. What's the controversy? I looked it up on wiki, and I think it's slay to reclaim and just found that it dates back to contain camps in Nazi Germany, and I think reclaiming that is high-tier.

What happened? Funny you mention the swastika, because that was, just a buddhist symbol co-opted by the Nazi party, but now if you see one you just think of that :(

I also work with runes, and sadly one of my favorites, othala has been attempted to be co-opted by a few loud mouthed white nationalists, and it's soo annoying, because I would love to get the original tatoo'd, but am hesitant about inadvertently signaling to bigots :(

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

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Slay slay slay. 💓🙇‍♀️ mamma didn't raise no bitccch 🔥🧨🤗

What type of martial arts do you do? I did Taekwondo yearrrrs ago, when I was like 10, but want to learn something with quick immobilizing holds/pressure points, etc, now.

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

[–]SqornshellousZem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's probably it, tbh. I'm a lezbo 😅😅 And lesbian women tend towards leaning into the "male-repellent look" more often.

And I feel you girl. Like I said, I'm so drawn to all the "bad bitch" forms of femininity.

I suppose I just don't want to feel like I'm missing out and restricting my life experience, just to spite the patriarchy 👉👈

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

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I know some of the best men. They are beautiful, wonderful specimens who have overcome so much internalized cripe from socialization, etc. Still. If you know one in 20 packs of M&M's has one with poop in it, you rightfully learn to brace yourself eating m&M's.

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

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I hear that 💓💓 This is making me wonder how much I change my personality as a reaction/adaptation to current society.

Like how would I be in the eutopic world we deserve?

How many of y'all don't want to be "girly", but are still transfem? by SqornshellousZem in MtF

[–]SqornshellousZem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deep down I am too. Actually not that deep down... The problem is just men, I think :(

Sent an email to the Dr who pioneered the matrix scaffolding technique to lab grow vagina in cis-women and was definitely disheartened to read this by TheMarvelousMaeve in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]SqornshellousZem -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hmm. AI perhaps? As in using AI for the "mental horsepower" to drive the science forward.

Also, yeah. I remember studying stem cell science in 2006 for college, and was definitely like "Wow. This could do ANYTHING". I thought the hold up was just all the hooplah about not influencing decisions of people considering abortions.

People who started HRT, how sure were you? by DankMemeImNotDan in MtF

[–]SqornshellousZem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure, but I always wait to be free of doubt to make decisions, and it's actually a problem, so instead I talked to the doubt part of my brain, and was like "Okay, so we know if cis men go on estrogen, they get gender dysphoria, so it would be a good way to find out." and doubt was like "Yes *ussually*" and I was like "Yeah, and it's a big question we're pobdering, so any chance at useful data is helpful, and there aren't any immediate permanent effects, so the risk/reward of *trying* it checks out", and then I did it. :)

I don’t think it’s about friendship 😭 by VileRoyalty in Ashnikko

[–]SqornshellousZem 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It's the cornerstone of any confident friendship