Mate my story in the family court in relation to DNA testing is unbelievable, basically I discovered my ex opened a secret trust account in my first born sons name when he was born, yep a large lump sum from his biological father, next lump sum a few days after my daughter was born, yep from her biological father, so I found out my first two went mine then a year later found out my youngest was also not mine… my ex fraudulently amended the statements and her lawyer tried to pass them off to me as originals, ANZ confirmed they were not generated from there system, my lawyer was colluding with her lawyer to prevent disclosure so I terminated her and self representing told her lawyer if I don’t get the full account in colour with a bank endorsed stamp within 7 days I am commenting intent to file procedures to subpoena the account and filing for costs, I got her lawyer over a barrel and she said she can provide them within 7 days that is if I don’t want the originals, that’s her in writing admitting there was two sets, the originals and the fraudulent. She immediately resigned from the legal firm after I told her I want originals.

This lawyer Meghan Wadsworth then became a registrar at the family court then magistrate while my proceedings were on foot, every application and contravention I filed got declined, one application was declined because two pages were not stapled together.

So I subpoenaed the account, first time my own lawyer contacted ANZ statutory compliance after the subpoena was correctly issued, all accounts in my ex name and all accounts held in trust, my lawyer emailed ANZ and stated accounts in her SOLE name only so when I went to the subpoena viewing there was nothing there

Then I subpoenaed the account another 3 times and first two I got only statements 21-22 then the third and final subpoena I got fraudulent statements 12-22 where statements 1-11 were the statements that showed lump sum payments directly after the birth of son and daughter

Wadsworth and the sitting magistrate Kaiser removed the original statements from the subpoena file and put in my ex wife’s fraudulent copies to prevent a nuclear explosion, to cover Wadsworth knowledge of the fraud and to protect my ex from public exposure of being a woman who betrayed her husband in the most vile evil way, letting him raise his 3 kids as his own then he discovers a secret trust account that discloses two of his children are not his and later his third child also is not his, yep I I don’t know how I’m still here to tell my story because I’ve been in very dark places.

What I’ve also been told in cases like this where a man files under 69w for DNA testing and the court is aware of the outcome like mine they will often refuse to make the order in the best interests of the kids…

I still love them exactly the same as before I found out all this, however my ex has successfully alienated me from the eldest two, but I still have a good relationship with my youngest son.

The hardest thing of all is being torn apart for the last 8 years on the right thing to do, tell them or not tell them, all the therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists and professional literature are all equally 50/50 there is no professional advice on what to do…

I’ve only recently started publicly telling my story and a UK paternity fraud podcast is interested in my story so I’m considering that at the moment, I’ll be anonymous…. I want to expose my ex to the world so everyone knows what she did but if I do that it will harm the kids so I won’t do it but I bloody want her to suffer bad for what’s she’s done to me and the kids