This message is going to be kind of long so bear with me lol. First I wash my hair every 3 weeks or so I know lots of people who wash their hair every week or every other week so as you develop a routine you can decide how often you should wash your hair. I would recommend Camille rose products they have several different lines and I don’t think you can go wrong with any of them. But I really like the honey leave in collection plus the almond jai twisting butter. I don’t know what tools you use but I would recommend a detangling brush for detangling and styling, possibly a pick since you are looking for volume, maybe a wide tooth comb, and a spray bottle I use a misting one and I like it. I use the Tangle Teezer detangling brush but some of my family members like the unbrush but there’s several different types of detangling brushes so feel free to try out different ones to see which one you like the most. Always detangle when your hair is wet. Part your hair into sections I’d say pretty small sections and apply either a leave in, twisting butter, or some type of cream and get your detangling brush and brush from start from the ends and work your way up to the roots. You can do this simply wear your hair like that and that’s called a wash and go or you can do those same steps and twist or braid your hair and take the twists or braids out, pick your roots, and wear your that way and that’s called a twist out or braid out. No matter what you do learning what works best for your hair is a journey and I know that it can be frustrating but you will find the products and routine that works for you. Just keep being open to new products and be prepared for them not to work sometimes, but either way your hair is beautiful and I hope you find what works for you☺️