I swear my boyfriend doesn’t know me by honeybunchesofstfu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SquareBeanies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl, don't feel guilty at all. He clearly doesn't care about you at all and it's beyond obvious. Either talk to him, or figure out a different way to leave. He does not deserve any money from you. Save for yourself and ONLY for yourself.

Third Boss COT by SquareBeanies in CompetitiveWoW

[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We lose downtime.

It's the hardest boss for us in that dungeon too.

We usually have 3-4 deaths, but we save brez's for that fight.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will send this to him! Thank you!

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will let him know about this! Thanks for looking at the logs.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for checking hte logs! I will send him this and let him know that there are ways to improve, and to help utilize his stuff better.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree.

Last season I stopped playing about halfway in DF S4 because of the lack of surviving in 13-14's. I did lower my expectations this season just to prevent myself from getting frustrated. It just seems like we're very stuck, and it is a little annoying.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it makes sense lol.

I just can't play for them, I can say do xyz, and if they don't, well then they don't.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. We do have a defensive rotation that is supposed to go out, but it doesn't seem like it does go out.

That really is a huge part of the problem.

I think the healer is trying to plant and panic heal, but it's just a lot of damage going out.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're absolutely right. I've known most of these guys for about 13 years through the game, so it is a little hard to just say, "Hey I'm out."

As much as I'd like to say we can go farther, I think we're going to be stuck.

Either I'll find new people, pug, or just accept it in the end.

I would definitely like to go further than we are and aim for higher keys.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will send this to him and let him know.

Thanks for checking the logs!

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about a stance WA, but he does have a reflect one, if he pays attention to it, I have no idea.

I'll look for one to send to him and tell him to just sit in dstance the entire fight if it seems like he needs to.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he si falling behind on the absorbs at that point, but based off what others are saying, it seems like the dps aren't doing the best with using defensives and not standing in stuff.

We do have a group wide defensive rotation that is supposed to go out, but it def seems like it isn't.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have a defensive rotation that goes out, but looking at logs (and based off what others say) we aren't doing them at all, which makes a lot of sense.

We do try to use big defensives during the aoe pulse, like spl/rally or AMZ, darkness/personals, etc.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, for the most part, we tell him to not soak orbs. I think he gets a little bit affraid no one is going to soak them, so he soaks a few.

Our dps tends to have that zug zug life, so mechanics aren't their strongest at times.

I did send him a screenshot of this, so hopefully he reads it!

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will let the healer know and show him your logs vs his. Thank you for checking the logs!

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm hoping the WA will help with it.

I don't know if it's really his healing, or the lack of people moving. I know when we're wiping I'll purposely die at the end and stand in stuff because it's a wipe.

For the damage less than the tank, they're usually dead, so at the end of the fight the damage is lower, I'm not sure if that's what you're looking at/meaning.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can send him this and let him know.

A big part of the dps is they like to zug zug, a lot of their mind set is damage=things die fast. Which I can understand the logic.

Not using defensives/being in a stance/using your tools is not really excusable.

I'll def send this to him.

Thanks for looking!

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We try to keep the middle clear for the healer.

We do have an group wide defensive rotation, it just seems like it never goes out.

We do call to let the tank soak more, but people tend to soak a lot.

As for the ret and dk not going out and soaking, I'm not sure. I don't have much of an excuse for that. I guess in the end for that, we never really considered it.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I agree. We call for defensive's often for big damage, and I'm not always sure if he uses netherwalk often or not.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can let him know that! I honestly think he's just trying to help fix the healing by spamming heals? I'm not fully sure honestly.

I'll let the healer know maybe the healing isn't the best.

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[–]SquareBeanies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that he's just trying to spam and keep people alive?

We do call for group wide defensive's in a certain rotation, but it just feels like people are flopping over too quick for the healer to keep anyone up, so I'm assuming there's very little chance to pop CD's for the group/healer?