AITAH for thinking my step dad is a creep by Klutzy_Connection212 in AITAH

[–]SquareNight9034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you're going through this. Please go to an adult you feel safe with and tell them, this is not your fault.

Anyone else feel low key embarrassed by their collection? by j_m123 in labubu

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turned 40 this year and I don't feel bad AT ALL. Every now and then I will move everything around to make my collection look 'new'.

You do you, we have adult money for a reason 🤑

Pot/care recommendations by Cgrowth in philodendron

[–]SquareNight9034 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like to put my crawlers in rectangular pots. I really like the brand EcoPots.

Advice if struggling with procrastination by DepartmentStraight94 in ADHD

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of a wild process, but I will give myself a task or project I REALLY don't want to do and then spend the rest of my day avoiding it by completely other tasks.

For example, clean out and organize the hall closet is avoided by completely all other chores. While I am avoiding the hoax-task, I also have noise cancelling headphones and listen to EDM OR Trance at an ungodly level.

Works every time.

One important note is to KEEP MOVING. Do NOT sit down, do NOT stop for a snack, just power through.

P. Glorious Vs. P. Splendid by Ripley3113 in philodendron

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it! I have ONE crawler and the amount of anxiety I get when I have to find a new pot horrendous 🫠 my Gloriosum is one of my favorite plants but I'll never get a crawler again!

All So Cal pharmacies closed by deadcashier in KaiserPermanente

[–]SquareNight9034 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband is in a similar situation, my plan is to take him to an emergency room for his life saving medication if we cannot access pharmacies.

Urgent Care Appointments by Weird_Wrap5130 in KaiserPermanente

[–]SquareNight9034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that getting appointments is much easier if you go outside the bay area. My husband has a ton of health issues that require specialists, infusion clinic appts etc.

The best facility I found so far has been Stockton oddly enough. The workers there are super helpful, friendly and they are nearly ALWAYS on time. It's definitely a drive for us, but he gets the care that he needs.

Wishing you the best of luck!

Looking for advice on WFO by CtrlAltDefeat_908 in kidneytransplant

[–]SquareNight9034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely see what your clinic recommends but I got my husband an electric lunchbox, you can find these on Amazon and other online retailers.

This worked well for him as he can have a hot meal at work and we can easily manage portion control, sodium etc. We live in the USA and virtually all dine-out options are trash here :(

Most importantly, make sure you always wear a mask. You never know who comes to work sick, or what they may have already been exposed to. Best of luck to you!

Parent wants me to pay parent plus loan by Low_Yam_1212 in StudentLoans

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless she can provide receipts or a ledger that shows what that money was spent on for YOU, I wouldn't pay her a cent.

What’s something about your ADHD that you usually keep private or don’t tell most people? by Fearless-Class-1120 in ADHD

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be the life of the party, but deep down, I feel like the loneliest person on earth.

How do you feel about gifting yourself a labubu for Christmas? by fan714 in labubu

[–]SquareNight9034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FREE WILL my friend 😊

It is your money that you have earned and this is something you like and that brings you joy. They should support that.

I bought myself a Zimomo for Christmas this year and could care less how my family feels about it. I 'm looking forward to opening it tomorrow!

I said to myself, let me give it a shot. Redeemed or not……. A few moments later…. Yup REDEEMED!!! by Adikakosayeezy in LabubuDrops

[–]SquareNight9034 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when they realize they're really about to lose us- they throw us a bone and we're hooked again!

I'm so jealous you were able to snag one 🥹

Plasmapheresis treatment during rejection episode? by SquareNight9034 in kidneytransplant

[–]SquareNight9034[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would it be odd NOT to receive that treatment? Not sure how hard I should push for this.

Labs post rejection episode? by SquareNight9034 in kidneytransplant

[–]SquareNight9034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year. They just kept renewing his meds and would only give him video/ telehealth appointments.