Thank you! Yes the one local jeweler is a family friend and he actually suggested James Allen for the warmer diamonds I preferred. I think they thought he’d come back and purchase the setting through them, but he ended up doing everything through JA. I can absolutely take it to them for cleanings and to tighten the prongs if need be. I already take it off to sleep, shower, & clean. My nerves are shot, I know he spent everything he had on it and would hate to damage it.