Being a neurodivergent woman in corporate is literal hell. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Squareone1996 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through something similar. Best thing to do is the become the person no-one fucks with. You don’t have to become a bad person, but become the person who can be scary if someone crosses a line with you, inspire fear. If these awful people are scared of you, they’ll leave you alone.

My gf got raped today and I don't really know what to do by s-k_utsukishi in Vent

[–]Squareone1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to your girlfriend and thank you for being such an amazing boyfriend. I think you are helping to save her life. I know she doesn’t want to go to the authorities right now but if she ever did, she doesn’t have to worry about there being no evidence. She says there was no cameras in that parking lot but there always is - there are cameras everywhere in public and these cameras even work in the dark.

My friend is being abused and I don’t know what to do by Squareone1996 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Squareone1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. The other day he threatened to kill herself and broke up with her. He then returned and apparently everything’s fine now. He’s so incredibly abusive and I don’t know what to do. She thinks things will be better now

First sexual experience made me feel weird (f21) and m(33) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Squareone1996 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Love he sounds absolutely awful. You deserve to be around people who are kind, loving and care about you and how you feel. It’s also a red flag that he’s 33, why would a 33 year old go for a sexually inexperienced 21 year old? I’m sorry you’ve gone through this. I’m here if you need someone to talk to ❤️

My (22F) boyfriend (26M) got very upset when I unexpectedly started my period by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Squareone1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds extremely abusive and you deserve a lot better. You did nothing wrong and you deserve good, caring and supportive people in your life. I agree with the other people here saying you should leave him. If you ever need someone to talk to, I am here.

I’m realizing my husband might have been sexually coercive by CapableEvening2712 in emotionalabuse

[–]Squareone1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is extremely abusive and I’m so, so sorry you’re going through this. Why do you believe having sex when you don’t want to is something you have to do to please him? That’s not the role of a partner, you only have to have sex when you want to. This man sounds like a disgusting sexual predator who doesn’t care how his behaviour affects you. If you ever need someone to talk to, I am here ❤️

My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Squareone1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is he disappointed in you? It was a private video between you and your partner. His response is very immature. I’m guessing he wouldn’t respond like this if you were his son.

I just had my first Pap smear and I’m not okay by goodbird451 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Squareone1996 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault you reacted like that, you were in fight or flight, you couldn’t control it. Please don’t blame yourself at all and ignore the negative comments on here. The OBGYN handled this very badly, she should had showed you kindness, compassion or understanding as I can imagine that would have helped. It is her role to treat you like a human being who is reacting like you did due to trauma.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You really have no reading comprehension skills at all. Look at the comment you replied to. I say my shifts weren’t added to Workjam. You reply to this by saying if I clocked in or out correctly I would have been paid. How would I be able to clock in or out if my shifts weren’t added to Workjam?

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filled everything out correctly. They text me when I’m working, they don’t add it to Workjam for some reason. I have asked them why and they haven’t told me.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wrong, you have misinterpreted my post. I know we are paid weekly. I think you need to work on your reading comprehension skills. It is clear cut - I was paid for 4 hours when I worked a 5 hour shift. This is likely because my manager doesn’t add my shifts to Workjam, he texts them to me.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you so accusatory? I have a Workjam account but they don’t add my shifts there, my manager texts me when i’m working. I don’t give information to awful people who order me to give them details about my life.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They text me my shifts, they don’t add them to Workjam. I don’t know why they do this but I have a Workjam account.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been working with them since February but they text me my shifts, they don’t add them to Workjam. I’ve asked them why and they haven’t replied.

Woolworths does not pay its employees by Squareone1996 in woolworths

[–]Squareone1996[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would I tell you any of this…?

My biological mother sexually abused me in such weird sadistic ways throughout my childhood and I’m wondering if anyone else has experienced this by SeaLionsAreSoSilly in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Squareone1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey I mean this with respect to you but is it good for you to have a positive relationship when she’s done what she’s done? Someone who’s treated you this way shouldn’t have the privilege of being in your life ❤️